[Crystalblue]

ok i want to update my story, so since that day i post my story here...
i went to a friend for help, she helped me set up a fake facebook account and pretend a hot chick and message my husband...and ask him out to have sex etc...

they first talk about normal stuffs and we get into asking him personal stuffs, he sure is honest about it, real name, height, weight, everything...not a single lie..(grrr made me mad...why so honest to a person you don't even know!!!!)

ok to the fun part, asking him out....surprisingly...
my husband said no, and said he would never cheat on his wife and he won't lose his family over sex with a stranger woman...

after i read it... my friend kept message him back to FORCE him to come out, but he rejected 5 times...i read everything... and i feel very relieve

i think my husband thinks typing and chatting is ok but actually meeting the person and doing the real thing is not...

after this...my emotions got better and our relationship improve SO MUCH because i don't get mad at him and suspect him as much and we are well better...we didn't fight for the last 5 days...

thank you for all your help!!!!!!!

That's great that you have found a little reassurance, but I don't see how this fixes the original problems you posted. I think you should reread it and decide if everything is solved or if you are just pushing it aside. Making up a pretend woman to flirt with him online doesn't prove one way or another that he doesn't have an inappropiate relationship with his ex. Instead of trying to trick him, try an honest talk about what he's doing and how you feel.

[Pringles]

hi!

it's nice reading all the replies here...my situation is not that too complicated, but i just want to share my story...and ask for opinions about it if it's ok with you..
Last night, when I arrived from work, my husband who is a stay at home hubby, continues to keep on texting his close college friend who happens to be a girl, they do this everyday..Though I don't have any intentions of telling him about my real feelings about her, because I already did a month ago, and he thinking about it, pushed him back to depression..So right now, I don't tell him anymore what I really feel towards their friendship but he can sense it but I do not admit anything to him.He doesn't even know that I am writing or I have this website to share my problems with...How could a woman think alone of her friendship with a man while disregarding the feelings of another woman? They say they are just really friends and nothing "romantic" is going on with them..It's just that they share everyday events to each other...This friend of his is far away from our place so there can't be any sexual relationship if some of you might think..They just communicate thru text..not even facebook..though sometimes he views her profile since one of her children is his "god child"..Is my jealousy valid? they were already friends before we met.. pls. help..thanks..