[SarahRene86]

Ok so I am a little new here, actually bran spanking new (this is my first post), so forgive me if i ramble a little bit....

My fiancee and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We've lived together for 2 1/2 and theres probably nothing about eachother that we dont know. I love the man to death and truly know there is noone out there better suited for me. Now that being said, after living with someone for 2 1/2 years you do find out all the little things that bug you about the other person. In my case, my fiancee gets in the WORST moods. It takes nothing to set him off. His phone doesnt get reception in our house - automatic bad mood, accompanied by chucking the phone across the room. Someone cuts him off on the freeway - Automatic bad mood, followed by a string of cuss words and an insane need to flip the person off and make sure they know it. The internet goes out at home - Automatic bad mood, followed by slamming the laptop shut, saying forget it and cussing about how ing ridiculous it is. Now dont get me wrong, I get in my fair share of bad moods, we all do, however I NEVER get as mad as he does. I've told him repeatedly that I cant handle his bad moods and he constantly tells me that he will work on it (and to his credit, he has gotten better) but the minute something doesnt go his way its back to that screaming crazy person that I have no desire to be around. I guess I just dont know how to handle all his moods and sometimes its a little frustrating. Any advice? because I truly am out of ideas on how to handle it anymore

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sounds as if he has anger issues... All "little things" and they are little things, set him off, instead of going grrr or laughing about it, his temper rises beyond normal and is triggered into a release before he can calm down.

Would he consider that it's not good for his soul, "not that there is something wrong with him" he'd probably flip over that too, and attend some anger management classes, or google information to show him, so he realises that it could get worse into road rage, physical and he needs to get it under control.

CW

[jns]

He needs anger management classes or he needs to go to a psychologist.