[bezza]

Hey DSemcho,lifes a real at times not only do i have to deal with my emotions and the kiddies, my eldest son and his g/friend have just lost there baby today , words cannot describe how im feeling never mind how they are feeling, someone up there as it in for me i'm sure, surely nothing more can go wrong, i'm gutted would love a cuddle from the Husband as he always made me feel safer...no chance of that, god how i miss him x x
Glad your life has sorted it self out wish i could do the same thing...in time i'm sure i will but for now coping hour to hour is so so difficult ...still x x

[CHANDLERS WISH]

You will gain the energy when the time is right for you.

I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your grandchild, they say things comes in threes so we can cope better, deal with everything at once...Whilst your husband can not hold you, we send you hugs And, please go and be with family at the moment, this Forum is still here for you tomorrow

x

[bezza]

Dear Ch, thanks for the syber hugs, lol, its really a lovely feeling that people who i hav'nt met before are so so nice and full of advice, i like to thank-you all x x x

[CHANDLERS WISH]

We do the finger as well you know Welcome sweet.

[jns]

bezza, how are things going now?

[emmy76]

Sounds like me life.

Hi everyone,
I'm here for help to get over my Husband, we've been together for just over 8 years we got married on 13th Feb 2010 after 13 months of marriage he decided that he wanted out i am totally devastated and its been 7 months, We have a 4 year old son together (his first) we planned at the age of 39 he is step-dad to my 14 year old and has been in his life since the age of 6(he is devastated too just like the 4year old), he is the love of my life and can't seem to get over him, he said i was too controlling insecure and needy and he did'nt love me anymore, he does odd jobs around the house he has been cooking tea for us this week as i had a fall and hurt my ankle, he is such a lovely bloke we are getting on really well but i just want him home and be a family agin, i need advice i've tried counsellors doctors and anti-depressants and nothing sseems to help.....x x x

Hi
Reading this sounds just like my life. My husband did exactly the same thing last Aug. Just told me one day he didn't love me and that his life was crushing him and moved out, leaving me with 3 children. How did things go with you and your husband? My husband has been the same, wanting to be in my life as a friend and just walking in and out of my home like he still lives there. Have been hanging on for 7months now in the hope he'd change his mind and come home. At first I thought he was depressed or going through a mid life crisis but it could just be as simple as he fell out of love and gave up on us and ran x