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Yes, a lot of things change after you are married. You have now got the guy. He is cornered. You do not have to be the loving woman that you used to be. He will definately get less oral sex. For some reason so many things are lost that should not be. On your side, maybe not be as attentive. Take each other for granted more and the list could go on and on and on. But it is up to the two of you to keep this going whether you are married or not. But not being married he can say good bye honey and you are alone. But then again the same goes for you.

Now for the Catholice Church or any other church. Their thoughts should not be in your marriage. They are not in bed with you. They do not pay for the care of many children and this is your life. It is up to two people to do this. The Catholic Church will say have sex only to have children and you cannot practice birth control. That is BS. At least that is what I thought hundreds of years ago when we were married. We both listened to our instructions, got married and practiced birth control. If I did not instead of three children which we have I figured I would have had 53. I like the three number better and love sex.

Get married if you want to and for no other reason. If you can look at him and see him 49 years from now with an older body, less hair but this hot sex symbol that still arouses you to the tip of your toes with passion, then honey go for it. If you question if, let it go.