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But, also, "please", ask your future husband to work out something with the family over the living conditions of this man..

CW

Oh trust me, CW, we have definitely tried talking to the family. The power of attorney (my fiance's grandmother) believes that taking him out of his home will "kill him." They said his home is his livlihood. It was bearable for him to live there when my fiance and I did because we would keep it clean and monitor him, but it was getting to be too stressful for us and wearing on our relationship, so we moved out. We are working on getting the Power of Attorney switched over to someone else. I agree, he is a human being and his living conditions are becoming really bad. This is a whole issue in it of itself.

But I am going to look into hiring someone professional for even an hour or so to help him. I know that would give me a huge peace of mind knowing someone was watching over him.