Never let your spouse go drinking with former lovers. Bad things will eventually happen. Especially if that ex has more free time to spend with them than you do. I have been married for 10 yrs and any time we have run into her ex I always show dominance toward him, leaving no question in his mind that he would have not chance with her. I give my wife everything she need and more, she needs no one else. She goes out with her GF's sometimes too, and I don't have to be there to know that she is staying faithful. Trust is earned, but the fact that she does not include you when going out is a red flag. Her being out hours longer than she said she would is another. Disrespecting you is the third, so re-establish your place in the relationship and get her to understand that the kids may be gone but YOU are still the #1 in her life, and how her behavior makes you feel is a problem. If you went out with the boys and starting hanging with your ex I bet she wouldn't like it much either.
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