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  • meena
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 2

    To STOP the porn i BECAME the porn

    what i am about to tell you may shock you and be considered as not the smartest move to make when you have a family. But my husbands obsession with porn was so bad that it was beginning to take over my life.i desperately tried everything to divert his attention away from this from putting filters on the computer to dressing more seductively but no matter how hard i tried he just could not resist the temptation.
    i became so frustrated with his endless excuses and meaningless promises that i decided i needed to take drastic action if our relationship was to last.
    having some friends in the film industry i managed to get a contact number for one of the producers of a well known porn site.on the day i arranged to meet him i kept thinking to myself am i wise or should i just sign myself in to a mental institute IMMEDIATELY!!!
    to cut a long story short my husband found out!! how? he had come across SEMI-NUDE pictures of me on the site.His reaction? FURIOUS!!!
    He accused me of cheating(although there was no intercourse or sexual contact with any other male),he called me a *****, a bad mother, a disgrace etc etc. My response 'RESULT' now he knew how i felt- the disgust and betrayal.
    Since then he has not looked at another porn site or to my knowledge at least. Even if he does give in to temptation at least i can be sure that he knows now the damaging effects this filthy habit can have on someones life and will definitely make him think twice!!
    After all when he can get the real thing at home why be bothered looking at fake plastic airbrushed girls on screen.......
  • Fallen1
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 1937

    Interesting.


    Something similar I've encountered:

    My boyfriend does his share of the internet porn watching/looking at nude photos. There is this restaurant that I liked to frequent but he will not take me there.

    His excuse - "I don't like the way they look at you, like your a piece of meat".

    My thoughts (and I expressed them to him) are - you don't like they way they look at me like a piece of meat but you can look at what you do which in my opinion is the same thing, looking at those females like they are pieces of meat.
    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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    • Guest

      Did you ever think about your child while you were trying to get back at your husband?

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      • renfroe1012001
        Member
        • Oct 2007
        • 15

        hey meama give me advice on how I should do that my hubby loves porn more then me our sex life has died and I want him to want me again and he doesn't so how can I get him to notice me again?

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