I have to say that my husband is very good about being honest with girls he likes. It is normally someone on a movie but normally I ask if he like a girl or not. When i say that I think a guy is sexy or hot on TV, it doesn't bother him! I think it is a give and take situation. I am very worried about how he views me but I think that is more my issue, I need to be comfortable with myself.
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For me it totally depends on what he says. If its just an off-hand comment like "she looks good in that outfit" or "she's pretty" it doesn't really bug me. I mean, just because he loves me doesn't make him blind to other attractive women. If he mentions something more graphic or keeps going on about it then yeah it starts to bug me. If its making you feel uncomfortable, I would say just have a talk with him. Don't come off like you're scolding him, just tell him that it makes you feel insecure and explain why. I'm sure he'll understand and go from there.
Just remember, you're who he's coming home to, married to, and loves. That means more than a silly comment.I love helping others :cool:
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