[atskitty2]

I can relate to how hard it is to reach out, when you're typically the one people go to for support. I also agree that venting is good, in context.

There's nothing wrong with trying to make a marriage work, giving it all you have. I'm not one to encourage divorce as a knee jerk reaction, but it sounds like you already know he isn't going to stay faithful, and you're finished with the lying and cannot move fwd with out trust. There's nothing wrong with that either.
You have to protect yourself and your kids. I'm sure there's a lot more going on that you haven't shared as well-and I'm not suggesting you should share. Do what's right for yourself and your babies, that's all that you should do right now.

[Faye13]

I am truly sorry your going through all of this, but he needs to go. Now. You are pregnant due to give brith soon you in no way should be sleeping on the couch not ever. (he's made me very angry reading this) You deserve better much much better. Tell him to take a hike, he treats you like rubbish, doesn't help with anything by the looks of it and you are raising your child by yourself as well. Get out of there, I hope things improve I really do xxx

[healthylife2014]

Hey girl. None of this is your fault. Even if you were not providing him with something he needed, he should communicate that with you and not go out and cheat. A man will confess and tell you that you are more important and he can stop talking to any girl for you. I normally am pro working things out but this man has checked out. He is not willing to do better or be a better person. I understand your in denial and it takes a while to move forward but know that being a good mom also means allowing your children to see a healthy relationship. Show your kids what a healthy marriage looks like by leaving this guy. He doesn't want to own up and do better. What else can you do besides move on?