[Dragonfly]

My brothers wife is extremely creepy! She touches me all the time and she constantly tells me how beautiful I am. She even tells my husband and I that we make beautiful babies!!!! I try to avoid her as much as possible and try to stay busy so she won't hug me - It never works. She will sit next to me and whisper to me that I am so pretty and my kids are handsome! HELP ME!!! What do I do? Is this normal??????

[sourpuss]

Some people just have a smaller personal space. I call them Space Invaders. It's probably her way of complimenting you and letting you know that she admires you. While her admiration may be in several areas, some women don't know how else to compliment someone other than make a comment about their beauty.

[Dragonfly]

I don't know. I just feel extra creeped out when she is around. She is always touching me and she has the most innappropriate conversations. Its incredibly uncomfortable. She even gets very sexual with my brother with saying " I never regret marrying you " and " You are soooo handsome" while she is talking to my brother this way she will get on her knees and crawl to him! YUCK!!!!!!! She even rubs her boobs on my back and on my chest when she hugs me behind or in the front. My husband laughs about it.. but I am grossed out.

[metalbudderfly]

well dragonfly,
sounds to me she really is invading your space. i would be equally freaked out by this behavior also. well you could nicely explaine to her what bothers you (if you haven't done so already) just try to explain to her in a non threatning way but still be clear on what you are trying to relay to her. tell her that you find it unapproprerate behavior. i know that this can be touchy considering she is married to your brother. but i know i never had a problem in telling my sister that i found things strange about her husband. she then spoke to him and took care of the problems. have you asked your brother for help in resolving this? well good luck.... Lynne