[Little]

yes that ***** did what he ask.u know they say military man have problem look like it's true cause my husband do have a big problem
yes he has a lot to hide big time.i do not spy.he can be right next to me i look in the phone i don't think it called spy.and me he put me on lock no male friend, if he do find out that i have a male friend he call them and curse them out.i called it crazy i just want to make him pay

That's wrong to say.
CERTAIN MEN have problems. Military men in general can be good, bad, or ugly ... if his friends know what he's doing, they should be taking him out back for a clear attitude adjustment!!
Now, I'll level with you in that some people join the military and have problems with submitting to authority that they take out on their loved ones by allowing them no control, and having all the control.
REMIND HIM THAT THE MILITARY HAS CONSEQUENCES FOR CHEATING SPOUSES. And start compiling your proof thereof; looks like you're heading for a divorce.

[dawn9800]

smash his phone into little pieces and then place the shards in his underwear or socks. that'll show him. or put bengay in his body wash bottle. or just have some man call you with a blocked number. he has to get a taste of his own medicine one way or another.

MUAHAHAHA!! I LOOOVE IT!

[metalbudderfly]

chantal28,
geeesh what you must be going through!!!! i wouldn't put up with kind of S****!!! he is playing ****** little games with you. maybe you should consider getting rid of him. does this co-worker have a boyfriend or hubby? if so bring it to his attention on what she is doing. hell i would put the bengay in his underwear. maybe scrub the toilet with his toothbrush and put it back for him to brush his teeth afterwards......seriously though i know getting revenge feels oh so good but maybe he is just not worth it, let his co-worker have him!!!!!!

[mr.mansview]

smash his phone into little pieces and then place the shards in his underwear or socks. that'll show him. or put bengay in his body wash bottle. or just have some man call you with a blocked number. he has to get a taste of his own medicine one way or another.

you make me very, very afraid..didn't i see you in fatal attraction?

[misskitty3]

LOL! that's funny cause i've never even seen that movie!

when i get mad, i get super p****d and if i want revenge, i know how to get it.

plus the OP said, "i just want to make him pay"

just trying to help! LOL