[Guest]

i went and got a car charger fa my man cuz the house charger wasnt warking and i charge it a lil and looked at the txts in his phone ans it hurt me cuz of whati saw... but on the otha hand this boy was use his fone but some othe thanx aint seem like it was that dude cuz i now how my man txt GOD I REALLY LOVE EM AND I DNT WANT THIS TO BE TRUE BUT ALL I CAN DO IS ASK...... WHAT SHOULD I DO BOUT THIS

[bubbles]

what did it say???

[Franny&Zooey]

After reading your post twice, I think I get what you're saying/asking. I agree with the previous post, what did it say? Do you recognize or know the number it was sent to? Can you ask the other man that uses his phone about it?

[Guest]

i send the nmber in his fone and he said something bout a friend but it in there... so i had his founf and i was txtin her askin why was she txtin and she said that her and my man was talkin and have been talkin since Dec... i asked bout the the girl bout the boy "my man friend" and she was like i wasnt talkin to him and all that... yesterday i found her num in his things aand i tld him i was done but LIKE I DUMMY IM STILL THERE he call himself trying to tell me what the deal is but i dont know it i want to believe him or not but me and this girl bout to have a talk so i dont look stupit becase me and my man are talkin bout gettin married in 8-30-2010 ans i want to make sure of everything

i dont really know what to do tho... what should i do

[Rasberrt]

Well...

It appears you may have caught him cheating or thinking about cheating so now the ball is in your court. You can stay and put up with it or move on. There really aren't many other options.

Sorry.

[commonsense]

i send the nmber in his fone and he said something bout a friend but it in there... so i had his founf and i was txtin her askin why was she txtin and she said that her and my man was talkin and have been talkin since Dec... i asked bout the the girl bout the boy "my man friend" and she was like i wasnt talkin to him and all that... yesterday i found her num in his things aand i tld him i was done but LIKE I DUMMY IM STILL THERE he call himself trying to tell me what the deal is but i dont know it i want to believe him or not but me and this girl bout to have a talk so i dont look stupit becase me and my man are talkin bout gettin married in 8-30-2010 ans i want to make sure of everything

i dont really know what to do tho... what should i do

If he's cheating now, he'll cheat on you when you get married. You need to hold off on marrying him until you can trust him.

[getfitgirl25]

Not trying to be mean...

First of all...
If you like drama stay with him, and see how many times this will occur! The way I see it is:

1. You're not going to leave, you'll make excuses and believe his lies and rationalizations.

or

2. You'll give him a "second" chance, and be strong enough to leave IF it happens again.

my advice....stop worrying about him, and concentrate on you. Take a look at your postings, they barely make sense. I hope its too fast of typing, and not proofreading. Always try your hardest to be the best you can be! You seem too young to be involved in stuff like this, you deserve to find someone who will treat you better and be faithful. Even before marriage faithfulness is a MUST! I would not plan a wedding until he has proven to be husband material!