[LongRoadTraveled]

Hi I'm New to the forum. I'm a 26 year old army wife. We've been married 4 years now together 5.
I found out tonight that he's made plans to cheat on me with his best friends wife. i found out threw myspace. I'm confused
I'm not sure what to do. i've always been about my marriage and making things better but it seems in one instant it has all fallen. I want to let his best friend know I Am not sure if it's right. He should know but how do i tell him. i'm still just so angry i dont want to vent all over him for something he cant control. please give me some advice

[sourpuss]

First, are you 100% SURE that their intention is to get together?

I don't know what you should do but if it were me I would talk to his friend about what you know. (if you are sure, that is)

[anarodri22]

I would make sure its not just a misunderstanding, or maybe even a joke.
My advice would be to wait and see, if you see things getting kinda strange, then step in, but not until you are MOST DEF. sure!
good luck!

[lexi]

I agree. Make sure it isn't a misunderstanding first. Talk to him about it maybe. If you have solid proof then he isn't going to be able to deny it.