The last 6 months have been absolutely brutal for her. It all started with this boss she had (she did contract work), he wasn’t very nice and his entire staff of woman have left since her contract ended.Her grandmother got sick suddenly and died, huge family drama circled around this. The fur babies got very sick but recovered, She started working 4 days a week permanently(prior she did contract work). She injured her knee and couldn’t work out for 6 weeks.
Her mother had a stroke(not life altering), and yesterday the ********** washer broke. So that’s a lot on anyone.
We use to talk in the kitchen while I made dinner. Now I tried to avoid it because she just talks about how stressed she is. It’s draining to me, she says the same thing for the last 3 months and starts crying. I try my best to listen instead of trying to fix the problem. But after 3 hours, I start getting mad bc it’s the same thing over and over. I don’t really yell and I never call names.i do the silent/stone wall thing. Which isn’t good.
I am a slob, I grew up in a messy house, I don’t notice mess/clutter.She on the other hand is the cleanest person I have ever meet.This is something that I must change. What advice do you have? What are things you wished your bf/husband did around the house? I am good at cleaning,I just don’t do it.
i rock the dad bod, she looks like a fitness model. I let myself go, I have gained 70 lbs since we started dating. She says it doesn’t matter, bbbbut let’s be honest. So when your bf/husband is over weight, how does that make you feel and how would you suggest a guy changes it?
Sex: we use to have rough sex for the last 4 years,4-7 times a week. I ve stopped making passes at her. She said the other day “you don’t hit on me anymore”. I know I am less affectionate towards her in general. 1: I think girls who are stressed and tired don’t want to have sex. 2: I am now at the weight, I don’t look good naked. What are your thoughts on this? Am I being selfish here? We have had sex 1 time in the last 3 months.
i love and adore my wife. To me she is my fantasy/dream girl come to life. What I don’t want to happen is this speculator relationship turn into a boring roommate situation. And no way in hell do I want this to turn into what I call “new mommy situation” (New Mommy? This is what I call relationships, where men relay on woman they date/married to do everything for them, they don’t make decisions, take control, feed their self,men that act like a child).
i am very serious about getting my relationship back on track. I am lost though on how to reduce some of the pressure on her.
The only place I could think to turn was to a network of woman.
So with all this being said. Girls, what do I need to do to become the husband she deserves and craves?
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