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She is talking sexual about her love for her boyfriend and sexual things...This is not to entice another woman...Quite a difference...Only thing different is men do this all the time, women do not...We are inhibited and talking sexual is not our critique....Unless the male species, we have to learn to do it and use it.....

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I meant unlike the male....Just got new google spell check and have to learn to use it...

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Anon: Some women just need to talk sexual with another woman to wake themselves up..They need permission to be sexual and talking with another woman is one of the things that does it...

She may have other tendencies that she is not saying but it is just part of being a woman...I am leaving now and cannot talk more on this but you have no idea of how much women are inhibited...It is their main problem..This woman feels guilty for talking sexual...How can she talk to a man like this? It is the difference in the sexes....

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Anon: That is why so many flock to my site to read what I write...I give them permission to be a dirty sexual woman.... They are afraid to do what I do...There is nothing special about me that is not special about every other woman in the world....TC, C

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Again, you are missing the point. She isn't talking to people about sex to lose her inhibitions and learn, your campaign of the repressed woman isn't relevent here. She feels bad because she's indulging in sexual acts (albeit virtual) with people who are not her fiancee.

[Fallen1]

Again, you are missing the point. She isn't talking to people about sex to lose her inhibitions and learn, your campaign of the repressed woman isn't relevent here. She feels bad because she's indulging in sexual acts (albeit virtual) with people who are not her fiancee.

I tend to agree with Anon here. That's the way I took it also.

And as an answer to your previous thought Anon - I agree with that also, that it's no more acceptable in my eyes for a woman to do it than it is for a man.

[patricias213]

i sometimes talk dirty with people online or cyber with girls. do u think its bad?? should i stop?? he doesnt know and i dnt wanna lose him i love him but he's not always around and sometimes i feel horny

please help meeeeeee

If you think that if he finds out you will lose him, dont do it. There are other things to do when you are horny other thaN cybering and talking dirty with people online.

If he was in your situation, would you be OK with him doing that? Think about it then think if you should continue or stop.

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Anon: I will agree that if she is talking to people and people mean "men" about sex that it is not OK. If I was doing this my husband would not stand for it...I just reread her post again. She sounds to me like she is getting off or else just likes to talk sex.

My problem being in this thread that so many women cannot talk about what is on their mind. Some need this and do not know where to go. Back when I went through what I went through I had no where to go. I was lost. I had no idea of what was happening to me. Absolutely no idea. I cannot tell you of the loneliness in not knowing of this new sexuality. Luckily for me I met someone who understood me..Now, if I had not ventured out and searched out women and only women to talk to, where would I be now...If this woman is horny she should write a blog to herself or whatever.

Her partner could very well get mad but when a woman has a very high sexual want level she must fulfill it somehow. I agree the Cybersex is not the right way. Her lady she is talking to could be a man. I would never do this myself but can also appreciate where she is coming from.

I guess I would tell her to not chance losing him and instead masturbate. Find her answsers within herself and control what she feels. Write to herself if this helps but get away from what may hurt her....It is such a tough call....TC, C

FYI: I have had women that have tried doing this with me...Or they could be men? They do not get an answer....Kind of a messed up world out there but also many in need..

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Caroline, before you put words into her mouth:

So basically, read her post, and don't assume what she's talking about (as you seem to do often).

You know Anon, as much as I try I just can't stop loving you...You just plain thrill me....It is words such as the one's highlighted, that you wrote about me, that keep me awake at night thinking of you....However, like I have stated to you before, it just ain't gonna work.......We live in two different worlds.....TC, C

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Caroline, she is not talking to other people about sex, to broaden her horizons. She is getting stimulated by sexual virtual sex with other women. There is a big difference, please re-read the thread so you can pick up on this. This has nothing to do with the "women are full of inhibitions, release the animal" spiel that you are going on about.

I would also like to ask you what the difference is if she's "cybering" with a man or a woman - someone else is someone else, be it hetro or homo sexual, cheating is cheating. Fair enough, most men will say off the cuff that they'd be happy for their partner to indulge in lesbian activity, but if they don't know about it, it will distress them basically as much as if it was a man. Also, this isn't like porn, there is a real person on the other end of it (and since you so vehemently disagree with porn so I cannot see how you could justify this). I will assume that you still don't know what the poster is talking about, and that we have our wires crossed.

Veering slightly off topic, you've said how you don't approve of your husband masturbating as you want to be his sexual all, and then you say something like: "when a woman has a very high sexual want level she must fulfill it somehow". I find it difficult to put up with blind hypocrisy. There isn't one set of rules for one gender, and a different set for the other, we must hold ourselves to the standards by which we judge. By any sort of average moral standard that this forum displays - this is cheating. Most women would be telling her to dump her man, as you can't be sure he'll be faithful, won't give you a disease, the dishonesty etc etc. however I have seen very little in the terms of telling this lady that she's doing the wrong thing.

Get it together.