Grower or shower

[MrMr]

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Does it really matter

[Ashlee T.]

No....we don't want to see it.

This may be an odd question for a women's forum. I'd venture to guess that most women are less concerned about a flacid penis.

[Tennessee54]

True. I find women don't care at all. You just have to make sure you're good to their heart and their body automatically follows.

[Julia W.]

Most people don't care about a flaccid penis. There's really nothing to do with a flaccid one anyway. The actual size of a penis is the erection, so grower or shower doesn't really matter!

[Wednesday L.F.]

Penis size or appearance are roughly #7,989 in order of importance on my list of things I value in a man. That's probably true of most women--certainly most women I know. That might be different if one is hiring a man strickly for sex. But in the context of a relationship, it's immaterial. Knowing one's way around a lady is far more important for sexual satisfaction anyway.

[Kayla Lords]

A flaccid penis exists -- and I have zero opinions on it one way or another. Whether it grows or shows, what I care about is that I experience mutual pleasure with my partner, with or without penetration. How his penis becomes erect and what it looks like -- before or during the erection -- means literally zero to me. I'm only going to care if a change to his erections means there's something wrong with his health OR if he's bothered by it.