[CHANDLERS WISH]

see thats my whole thing, I don't believ in marriage because I don't know anyone who ins't divorced. I dont believe there is such a thing as divorce. Marriage is for life, but I only got maried becasue I dont belive in it...

does that make sense

??? no, well to the last line anyway...


I understand there is a lot of Divorce going on... and there are loads of reasons for that, cheating, financial stress, chose the wrong partner before making that commitment, fell out of love as lust was really the main trigger to start with, non-communication breakdowns, loss of sexual desire on-going, no real effort made, or one felt that they were stuck, as once married everything changed...

But, that's the same as living together, and it doesn't work out, or going out for years and it all seems to change and no one's happy.

I too believed marriage is forever, but that's a beautiful dream to have, romantic, loving and loyal.

No one can predict the future though, anything and everything can change in life.

It seems sometimes the way we view things are strange, like 5 years in a relationship, doesn't work, move on... That's okay because we weren't married, but if it was a marriage then it would spell doom.

As long as your happy with what your doing, then it doesn't matter, just be happy...

CW

[HickBarbie]

I dont want to be another divorce statisic. i think its wrong, thats not what marriage is about,and people are getting married too young, and for the wrong reasons. Marraige just doesn't appeal to me. I'm not religious, to me it is just a peice of paper, whats the point now a days?