Well, we are all adults here, and sex is a part of marriage, so here go my questions.
Sorry TMI ahead..
I been with my husband since we were 25, we are 39 now. We are long term married. I know there are 8 BILLIONS people in this world, hundreds of countries, thousand of cultures. So no man is the same. But I'm just so hung up about him that I want to understand his dominant mindset.
Please keep in mind I fully consent to him with every fiber being of me, without him I wouldn't know the pleasure of vaginal orgasms after vaginal orgasms to the point I was throbbing over and over, even if the ceiling fall on top of me I still wouldn't notice because all I can concentrate on was how good his penis feels.
No, I'm not asking for advice to spice up my sex life, I don't need, as he not just only well-endowed but also well hung, his penis is enough to give me vaginal orgasms.
He is very Vanilla, so am I, that is why we sexually compatible. No, we are violently monagamous, there literally be murder in his household before there a third person in our bedroom, we just not into those stuff.
There no toys, chains, tied up, dungeon stuff, so BDSM is moot. He never once ask for anal neither, he just want my vagina. Hell, he never slap my butt during sex, let alone anal, that how much Vanilla he is.
BUT, here the BUT. There more to it about him.
First of he has this insanely dominant mindset, he explicitly said, his exact words: "he the one with the penis so let him do the Fu-cking"., Yep, his exact words.
He said let him do all the fu-cking and initiating. He said he wants to be the dominant one so let him do 100% of the F-ucking. Just submit to him, let him do all the work.
He said it a mind/mental thing to him. And he can't get erected if he not in the position sexually where he is the dominant one.
He said he not want my mouth, he wants my vagina, well at least he honest.
He likes to be the initiator and the “top.” He likes vaginal only and likes it a little rough. Rough here I mean his penis in his thrusting you know. No, there zero toys involve, it just his penis.
Second, he can likes it little rough. He the type that pushed you down the bed and use his body as force, and he likes to pin you down restraint you like one hand hold hard your wrist and one hand hold hard your shoulder, and fu-ck you.
.....
And he into sudden sex based on his inner impulse, example like he just stare and stare at me and he just pin me down the bed and fu-ck me till I throb all over and can't take the repeated vaginal orgasms anymore and BEG him to stop.
He is selfless in bed but then at the same time dominant. He never asked me su-ck his penis, or asked for anal, he give me the same answer every time, he wants my vagina. And he sure ask me for one thing, let him dominate the sex session.
I said he selfless in bed because it always my orgasms and my pleasure first (whether it his mouth of his penis), and he the last to cum at the end. He can likes it rough with his penis, but he knows he didn't hurt me because I was throbbing vaginally and ofcourse his penis can feel my vaginal orgasms, and I moan. He would have stop if I didn't show him that during sex.
It like he see it as a failure on his part if he can't get me submit to him and BEG him to stop due to I can't take it anymore.
You know a woman vagina when you get vaginal orgasms you throb so much it get sensitive and the pleasure sensation it lingers deep in your vagina, I would be happy if he stop after give me one orgasms, but he won't stop, he keep on fu-cking me then my vagina naturally second wave of orgasms come I throb all over again, then third, then fourth, as he won't stop fu-ck. Until he see I get so drain, then he cums. It like he has to be in total control.
Third, he does 100% of the work in bed, and he flat out Vanilla, but every time he done with me, my body get so drain that all I can do is say his name and fall asleep within few minutes, while still naked, I was so drain. Perhaps it the repeated vaginal orgasms after orgasms he gives me. But I never understand why he the one that does all the work, while I just enjoy the pleasure by him, but I'm the one that drain, and not him.
I want to pleasure him back, I asked him if there anything I can do, and asked if he happy with our sex life. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and I give him what he wants--as in let him be dominant,and fully in charge, he said that just how his mindset work, he literally cannot get an erection if he not dominant in the bedroom.
Anyhoo, my question is, why am I so drain every single da-mn time he done with me? I do nothing except do what he asked, he wants me to enjoy the pleasure he gives me so I enjoy, he the one that ride the high, the one that does ALL the work in bed, but I just can't seem to stay awake after he done fu-ck me, I drift into sleep like a baby, I was super drain. It is the repeating vaginal orgasms he gives me? Or perhaps my body is just weak, and can't handle him, lol.
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Sorry TMI ahead..
I been with my husband since we were 25, we are 39 now. We are long term married. I know there are 8 BILLIONS people in this world, hundreds of countries, thousand of cultures. So no man is the same. But I'm just so hung up about him that I want to understand his dominant mindset.
Please keep in mind I fully consent to him with every fiber being of me, without him I wouldn't know the pleasure of vaginal orgasms after vaginal orgasms to the point I was throbbing over and over, even if the ceiling fall on top of me I still wouldn't notice because all I can concentrate on was how good his penis feels.
No, I'm not asking for advice to spice up my sex life, I don't need, as he not just only well-endowed but also well hung, his penis is enough to give me vaginal orgasms.
He is very Vanilla, so am I, that is why we sexually compatible. No, we are violently monagamous, there literally be murder in his household before there a third person in our bedroom, we just not into those stuff.
There no toys, chains, tied up, dungeon stuff, so BDSM is moot. He never once ask for anal neither, he just want my vagina. Hell, he never slap my butt during sex, let alone anal, that how much Vanilla he is.
BUT, here the BUT. There more to it about him.
First of he has this insanely dominant mindset, he explicitly said, his exact words: "he the one with the penis so let him do the Fu-cking"., Yep, his exact words.
He said let him do all the fu-cking and initiating. He said he wants to be the dominant one so let him do 100% of the F-ucking. Just submit to him, let him do all the work.
He said it a mind/mental thing to him. And he can't get erected if he not in the position sexually where he is the dominant one.
He said he not want my mouth, he wants my vagina, well at least he honest.
He likes to be the initiator and the “top.” He likes vaginal only and likes it a little rough. Rough here I mean his penis in his thrusting you know. No, there zero toys involve, it just his penis.
Second, he can likes it little rough. He the type that pushed you down the bed and use his body as force, and he likes to pin you down restraint you like one hand hold hard your wrist and one hand hold hard your shoulder, and fu-ck you.
.....
And he into sudden sex based on his inner impulse, example like he just stare and stare at me and he just pin me down the bed and fu-ck me till I throb all over and can't take the repeated vaginal orgasms anymore and BEG him to stop.
He is selfless in bed but then at the same time dominant. He never asked me su-ck his penis, or asked for anal, he give me the same answer every time, he wants my vagina. And he sure ask me for one thing, let him dominate the sex session.
I said he selfless in bed because it always my orgasms and my pleasure first (whether it his mouth of his penis), and he the last to cum at the end. He can likes it rough with his penis, but he knows he didn't hurt me because I was throbbing vaginally and ofcourse his penis can feel my vaginal orgasms, and I moan. He would have stop if I didn't show him that during sex.
It like he see it as a failure on his part if he can't get me submit to him and BEG him to stop due to I can't take it anymore.
You know a woman vagina when you get vaginal orgasms you throb so much it get sensitive and the pleasure sensation it lingers deep in your vagina, I would be happy if he stop after give me one orgasms, but he won't stop, he keep on fu-cking me then my vagina naturally second wave of orgasms come I throb all over again, then third, then fourth, as he won't stop fu-ck. Until he see I get so drain, then he cums. It like he has to be in total control.
Third, he does 100% of the work in bed, and he flat out Vanilla, but every time he done with me, my body get so drain that all I can do is say his name and fall asleep within few minutes, while still naked, I was so drain. Perhaps it the repeated vaginal orgasms after orgasms he gives me. But I never understand why he the one that does all the work, while I just enjoy the pleasure by him, but I'm the one that drain, and not him.
I want to pleasure him back, I asked him if there anything I can do, and asked if he happy with our sex life. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and I give him what he wants--as in let him be dominant,and fully in charge, he said that just how his mindset work, he literally cannot get an erection if he not dominant in the bedroom.
Anyhoo, my question is, why am I so drain every single da-mn time he done with me? I do nothing except do what he asked, he wants me to enjoy the pleasure he gives me so I enjoy, he the one that ride the high, the one that does ALL the work in bed, but I just can't seem to stay awake after he done fu-ck me, I drift into sleep like a baby, I was super drain. It is the repeating vaginal orgasms he gives me? Or perhaps my body is just weak, and can't handle him, lol.
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