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  • Wednesday L.F.
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2020
    • 362

    Setting the scene

    I’ve been making massage candles, which are awesome for date night. It’s inspired me to set up fun scenes for my guy, but I’m honestly low on ideas. Candles, fresh sheets, flower petals…it’s all been done.

    anybody got any fresh ideas for setting up a sexy scene for date night?
  • Alison H.
    WHI Lead Administrator
    • Aug 2019
    • 312

    So I'm very much into colored LEDs these days (we've got bulbs that we can actually alter the colors and brightness/dimness of the lamps using our phones and it is the GREATEST THING EVER as far as I'm concerned), but I was thinking it could be cool to use something like that (even just using strings of colored lights) to set complete moods:

    Red lights — full seduction, with maybe warmed massage oils and candles (or even warming tingly lube) and sexy low music. Could explore some candle wax play, or heat/temperature play with heat-friendly glass toys.

    Blue lights — sort of a "warm me up in the winter" kind of vibe, play with ice or some temperature-friendly toys (glass toys chilled, that kind of thing), maybe with some tinsel (if you don't have to worry about animals that would eat it) to create a cold glittery kind of icy space? Cool/tingly lubes would fit there, too.

    Black light — do a fun at-home club vibe for dancing together (and then anything else that comes after...)

    Purple/Blue/Green lighting — kind of a galaxy setting, sort of like date night in outer space?

    Blue/green lights — in the bathroom for an undersea kind of evening? (Bath for two, that kind of thing? Mermaid role play?)

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    • Wednesday L.F.
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2020
      • 362

      Neat! I love it.

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