anybody got any fresh ideas for setting up a sexy scene for date night?
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So I'm very much into colored LEDs these days (we've got bulbs that we can actually alter the colors and brightness/dimness of the lamps using our phones and it is the GREATEST THING EVER as far as I'm concerned), but I was thinking it could be cool to use something like that (even just using strings of colored lights) to set complete moods:
Red lights — full seduction, with maybe warmed massage oils and candles (or even warming tingly lube) and sexy low music. Could explore some candle wax play, or heat/temperature play with heat-friendly glass toys.
Blue lights — sort of a "warm me up in the winter" kind of vibe, play with ice or some temperature-friendly toys (glass toys chilled, that kind of thing), maybe with some tinsel (if you don't have to worry about animals that would eat it) to create a cold glittery kind of icy space? Cool/tingly lubes would fit there, too.
Black light — do a fun at-home club vibe for dancing together (and then anything else that comes after...)
Purple/Blue/Green lighting — kind of a galaxy setting, sort of like date night in outer space?
Blue/green lights — in the bathroom for an undersea kind of evening? (Bath for two, that kind of thing? Mermaid role play?)
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