My boyfriend has this weird issue with my past.
Before we got together I went out to clubs, got drunk, did drugs and slept with a few people. And I have more partners than he does (not that many, but a couple more). Before we got together he had a wife and a daughter. She's an ex-wife now and his daughter lives with us.
He keeps making these comments about my past. We were talking about abortion today (which I had one right before me and him got together and he knew it). And he was asking me about it. I answered his questions and kept on going about my business. But it's like he got mad about it (not the fact that I had an abortion). It seems like he was mad at the fact that I ever was pregnant at all. Like in his mind he's thinking somebody got my girlfriend pregnant before I did. Does that make sense?
I'm over his past, all the things he's done. I just don't understand why he can't get over mine. And he's the one who keeps bringing it up, not me.
And like he doesnt get mad at me where we're yelling and screaming. It's just like, he ignores me sorta kinda. Like I'll want to talk to him about something and he'll just give me a one word answer. Like he'll talk to me, but not like he normally does. I ask him whats wrong and tell him that we can talk about things, but he never wants to talk about it. We honestly, never yell or scream or slam doors or anything. We'll be talking, he'll get mad and he'll do that whole routine. And it's like once he's done being mad at me then he'll talk to me again. 99% of the time, I don't know why he's mad.
So... long story short, lol... How can I help him get over my past and how can I get him to open up and tell me what's bothering him?
Before we got together I went out to clubs, got drunk, did drugs and slept with a few people. And I have more partners than he does (not that many, but a couple more). Before we got together he had a wife and a daughter. She's an ex-wife now and his daughter lives with us.
He keeps making these comments about my past. We were talking about abortion today (which I had one right before me and him got together and he knew it). And he was asking me about it. I answered his questions and kept on going about my business. But it's like he got mad about it (not the fact that I had an abortion). It seems like he was mad at the fact that I ever was pregnant at all. Like in his mind he's thinking somebody got my girlfriend pregnant before I did. Does that make sense?
I'm over his past, all the things he's done. I just don't understand why he can't get over mine. And he's the one who keeps bringing it up, not me.
And like he doesnt get mad at me where we're yelling and screaming. It's just like, he ignores me sorta kinda. Like I'll want to talk to him about something and he'll just give me a one word answer. Like he'll talk to me, but not like he normally does. I ask him whats wrong and tell him that we can talk about things, but he never wants to talk about it. We honestly, never yell or scream or slam doors or anything. We'll be talking, he'll get mad and he'll do that whole routine. And it's like once he's done being mad at me then he'll talk to me again. 99% of the time, I don't know why he's mad.
So... long story short, lol... How can I help him get over my past and how can I get him to open up and tell me what's bothering him?
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