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  • midnight_tragedy
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2007
    • 1

    Decrease in sex drive when on the pill common?

    I'm considering going on birth control, because I am young and I want to be safe as well as save parenthood for a few years. However, I've read a couple topics in this forum that mentioned dryness and decreased sex drive after going on birth control.
    I'm wondering if that's very common, because if so, I would much rather look into another form of birth control that wouldn't have this side effect. My boyfriend and I have sex frequently, and it would be very emotionally distressing for him if he felt like he couldn't turn me on. And, of course, I want to enjoy him as much as possible.
    So is this a common side effect? Just for certain types of medication, or all types of birth control?
  • mamacita87
    Junior Member
    • May 2007
    • 2

    I would say that it is a common side effect... it happened to me with both the Nuva Ring and Alesse, my sex drive decreased and I had a lot of problems with vaginal dryness. I still haven't found a method of birth control that works, though. I'm currently on Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo and now I'm having trouble reaching orgasm.

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    • Ez2LuvBabe
      Junior Member
      • May 2007
      • 1

      decrease....

      I definitely had trouble with decrease in sex drive with the common pill. However, with the Nuva Ring, I didn't notice as much of a decrease. I think it has a lot to do with what your hormone levels are to begin with - so each pill may effect each person to a different degree. However, it is a fairly common side effect.

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      • avery3
        Member
        • Feb 2007
        • 51

        yea ive noticed my sex drive decrease- i thought it was just me and got scared that my boyfreind couldnt turn me on anymore- but sometimes through out the month i have periods of time were it doesnt affect me at all- and then other times theres no feeling at all.

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        • Kahurin
          Member
          • Jun 2007
          • 15

          if its a bother talk to your doctor and maybe try out all different kinds of birthcontrols like a lower dosage?
          :cool:

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          • ang2006
            Member
            • Oct 2006
            • 26

            I am trying to get pregnant so I went off my birth control which was ortho tricyclene & my sex drive has gotten so much better. I had no sex drive at all when I was on the bc. I went off in November & I can really tell a difference. I hope this helps.

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