[mirka]

hey everybody... my bf and i really want to make love to each other..and it's the first time for both of us. the only thing that i'm worried about is getting pregnant... so i want to take all the necessary precautions..
what i had in mind was this combination:
1. do it after ovulation.. very close to the next period
2. use condom
3. withdrawal
4. morning after-pill
what do you think of this combination? safe enough?? ? i know the safest is abstinence... but i'm trying to come up with the safest combination possible..

[jessie1234]

hello
sounds like you are being very careful
however with all of that you would not need the morning after pill
it is designed to be used in case of a condom break or something like that
not designed to be part of a birth control regime
you would try getting the pill instead - however - 1-3 is wayyyyy more then enough protection

[LanaBear]

Are you saying you will use ALL four of those methods? Seriously, at this point, why have sex? Over thinking this to the point where you feel you need to use all four of those methods, I seriously doubt will leave you any room to actually even enjoy the act.

The morning after pill is EMERGENCY contraception. Not to be taken any time you have sex just because. Go get on the pill if you are going to take the MAP like that.

[jns]

hey everybody... my bf and i really want to make love to each other..and it's the first time for both of us. the only thing that i'm worried about is getting pregnant... so i want to take all the necessary precautions..
what i had in mind was this combination:
1. do it after ovulation.. very close to the next period
2. use condom
3. withdrawal
4. morning after-pill
what do you think of this combination? safe enough?? ? i know the safest is abstinence... but i'm trying to come up with the safest combination possible..

Why not make love to each other using masturbation on each other and oral sex on each other to get each other to orgasm. It should be as safe as what you describe. The morning-after pill is overkill. The first two cover you pretty good. The third can have failure if the guy doesn't withdraw at the right time or if precum is released.

[mirka]

Are you saying you will use ALL four of those methods? Seriously, at this point, why have sex? Over thinking this to the point where you feel you need to use all four of those methods, I seriously doubt will leave you any room to actually even enjoy the act.

The morning after pill is EMERGENCY contraception. Not to be taken any time you have sex just because. Go get on the pill if you are going to take the MAP like that.

i really don't wanna get preg... and knowing that i'm safe will actually help me to enjoy the act.. not knowing whether i'm safe or not will keep me tense, ultimately not even enjoying the act.. :/

[mirka]

but would withdrawal be a failure even if condom is used?

[Guest]

Withdrawal is not a good method 9 times out of 10 he won't get out of you quick enough, well i guess with a condom it would be fine, why not just go on the pill ??