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low drive
Low drive, I am going to see a Gyno tomorrow to see what's going on. My drive is low & some time ago they did some tests and I got called back & they said I had irregular cells?! But then never followed up so I'm a little concerned. It's also quite painful for me to have sex so I'm concerned about that as well, it never used to be though that's the weird part. I'm wondering if maybe theres something wrong? I personally hate doctors and have not had good experiences with them but I'm trying to make myself healthyer and relationship better with my other half because we too have the age old debate of what is enough sex etc. etc. he's actually pretty good about it but I hate having to turn him down. I've been reading the threads about others experiences and wondering what choices I have if I don't want to have kids yet, but really want my drive back! Or if people maybe know of somethings I should ask my doctor regarding this or options I should talk to him about? Any info would help... thanks -
Were you on any type of birth control before you had no drive? bc I was on YAz and now I also have pain during sex and no drive at all.Low drive, I am going to see a Gyno tomorrow to see what's going on. My drive is low & some time ago they did some tests and I got called back & they said I had irregular cells?! But then never followed up so I'm a little concerned. It's also quite painful for me to have sex so I'm concerned about that as well, it never used to be though that's the weird part. I'm wondering if maybe theres something wrong? I personally hate doctors and have not had good experiences with them but I'm trying to make myself healthyer and relationship better with my other half because we too have the age old debate of what is enough sex etc. etc. he's actually pretty good about it but I hate having to turn him down. I've been reading the threads about others experiences and wondering what choices I have if I don't want to have kids yet, but really want my drive back! Or if people maybe know of somethings I should ask my doctor regarding this or options I should talk to him about? Any info would help... thanks
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