[Mia123]

hi okay,
this is very detailed btw but please understand i need help
so me and my boyfriend decided to do anal sex march 23rd 2013, when he finishes in my butt i go to the bathroom to wipe it but i usually dont get it all because he pushes his "thing" so far up. So i go home later to shower. Well i showered and i knew it wasnt all out and by the end of the night cum kept on leaking out my butt onto my underwear so i had to keep changing it. 1 day later it still did. so finally i used paper towel to wipe it all and a orange slimy paste came out. i have no idea what that was. i ended up getting a little on my vaginal area. the next day i told my friend about it and she assured me the sperm dies within 24-48 hours. then as time went on a little everytime i peed there was a lot of pressure on my stomache. i think i had a uti because i looked it up and it said anal is a major cause a uti infections? also march 24th i was getting some pains in my lower back but that could of been the way i was sitting. Now march 26th i did anal again and the same thing happened... i know im dumb. So at 8 in the morning March 27th i took the pill. My sister threw it in my retainer case because my mom doesnt know i took it and the top of the pill got a little wet. when i put it in my mouth it disinigrated immediatly on my tounge and then i swallowed all the rest down that was on my tounge with water. Is this pill still effective? March 31st easter i wokeup with a very sore and acidy dry throat. I also have a cough and runny nose i also felt dizzy. April 1st, today i wokeup very dizzy and nausiated. Not sure if this is the doings of the pill or sickness i may have. All these different symptoms are confusing me i just need advice and please dont tell me to just go see a doctor. :/ note: i also took the morning after pill about a year ago in september and i had dizzyness and i ended up skipping the month of october for my period. Please ladies help a stupid girl in need I WILL HELP BACK!!

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Sounds like a Uti but you might also caught a cold or something like that if your asking if your pregnant I really don't think so. Your symptoms sound like a Uti please go to the doctor because it can get worst and cause a bad infection..

[lizzardb63]

Sperm can live up to 5 days if kept at the right temperature. You can get pregnant if it spills from your anus to your underwear where your vagina is touching...but if you're on the pill and take it regularily then you shouldn't get pregnant. I am just saying if you use no other form of birth control. I know you don't want to hear "go to the doctor" but it does sound like you have a UTI and will need to be put on some antibiotics. I just went about 2 weeks ago for it and they just put you on an antibiotic for about 5 days and you're cured. NOt a big deal, but if it doesn't get better within a day or two definitely make an appointment with the doctor. Next time, use a condom when you practice anal sex. The bacteria is not good for you OR him.

[Harmony]

If he's finishing/ejaculating in your 'A' the chances of pregnancy are reduced, you've also taken the pill, so the chances of pregnancy are minimal.

The mess sounds normal, I've never ejaculated inside a woman's 'A' so I couldn't say for sure. what should or shouldn't happen.

You do need the doctor to check you out.

Taking a pregnancy test will confirm your pregnancy status.

Abstaining from anal for a while will hopefully stop the problem getting worse, I would guess at least some kind of internal pains are to be expected from anal but listen to your body and don;t let your BF persuade you to do anything your not ready for.

You need the doctor to test/diagnose/prescribe treatment if a UTI exists, that's the only way.

[Mia123]

ive been drinking alot of water and pure cranberry juice and it actually hasnt bothered me all day today. hopefully my "uti" problem went away but the only thing i still have a concern about it being pregnant. do you think that plan b pill worked even though some of it got in water? :/

[Mia123]

thankyou everyone for your advice it really helps! ive been drinking cranberry juice and water alot to try to flush the bacteria out of me and it my uti problem hasnt bothered me all day! but what do you think about the plan b? Do you think it worked even though im feeling these symptoms?

[Mia123]

i also have another question, if my doctor prescribes me uti pills and i took morning after pill march 27th could that be dangerous?

[lizzardb63]

If you take the regular pill and take it like you should and ALSO took Plan B, you have a very slim to no chance of getting pregnant. I'd only be worried if you use absolutely no protection. It does reduce your chances of pregnancy (anal) but it doesn't guarantee you won't get pregnant.

The UTI pills a.k.a. antibiotics will not interfere with the plan b. It's not going to harm you. The only side affect I got when I took the antibiotics for my UTI was loss of appetite and nausea, but that went away right after I was done taking them. The plan B pill will be out of your system by then anyway.