[Ana Bread]

ok... i have read some of the other posts on here about getting rid of hair... down there... and so far nothing has helped with my problem... first off... i don't know if this is normal, but i feel like my vaginal lips are, well, long... not like i'm stretched out from having a lot of partners... because i haven't had a lot... only one... and i feel way to scared to shave or to trim my hair with scissors because i'm scared that i will literally slice a part of my skin off... not only that... i live with my fiance... been with him for a good long while now... and i'm scared that if i buy like a cream hair removal product, that he will be grossed out because he knows what i'm doing in the bathroom... can someone please help me here... it disgusts me... i just want it gone... without a lot of pain...

[Phoebee]

I doubt he will be grossed out. Mine loves it when I trim or shave. If you have never shaved the area using clippers to "mow down" the bush is a good first step. DH and I use Cream rinse (Not shaving cream) and a good 3 or 4 blade shavers. The Bics etc are not good. Way to easy to nick the skin and thats no fun.

[scarlet starburst]

Use Gillete Mach III razors, they are the best. And get HIM to do it for you, he'll be able to see better where to shave, and he may enjoy helping you. Mine does

[yorkielass]

shaving

I use a razor with one blade for women.I have read somewhere on here to put baby powder on after and there will be no itching.Ask him to help you.

Yorkielass

[Peacheskreme]

oh oh oh i have a good one.

I get scared too whenever i shave so i hold my finger over my clitoris just in case...i never want anything close or accidentally moved cause of the soap. always a good razor..and i always use a loofah after shaving because it prevents ingrown hair. I also heard that shaving daily prevents the red bumps unless you have them already..then wait for a few days..exfoliate then shave again free of bumps. but always go over with a loofah after. trust me it helps.



But I agree with a trim first..clippers or even go to the store and find a body timmer. its good to get close but doesn't get that close to the skin.

[caterpillar79]

Do you guys shave all the bush or leave some like a V-shaped trim? I do, and he loves it, he thinks it's sexy. But I want to shave clean and smooth. Kindly tell me more about the cream that you use: what's the brand and where can I buy it? I am a shy person, I can't go into stores and browse sections that have something to do with genitals.

[MissBlueSky]

I used to shave when I was younger and felt uncomfortable with waxing. If you are worried about nicking the skin, open your leg to its widest degree, so that the skin is taught and hold "the loose bits" to one side with a flat hand; this should make the skin you would like to shave as easy as possible to shave.

Secondly, I REALLY recommend Nads for home waxing. It's made out of honey, lemon and other natural ingredients, and it only sticks to hair, so isn't as painful as normal wax for home use. Still painful, but when used correctly is only really uncomfortable - I find it's a mental discomfort, more than physically being in pain (you do need a bit of willpower)! The woman that created the Nads products created them for her daughter who was quite young at the time and wasn't prepared to go through a painful wax.

Lastly, I have found a brilliant beautician. I have only gone to her twice and had a normal bikini wax, but am booking in for a French next time. Her professional wax lasts for 6 weeks and is relaxing with a great result. She can do in 10 minutes what takes me half an hour or more.

As for your worry about being "loose", women have lips of all shapes and sizes. One of my dad's girlfriends had lips that were about 2 inches or more long and she was very comfortable with her body (which explains how I know what she looks like down there!). There are surgeries available to trim vaginal skin, but a healthier stater of mind is to be confident with your body and go to a doctor if you a genuinely worried about being different to other women.

I hope I've helped - will let you all know how my French went!

[Andreas]

Hiya

Dont be scared of clipping any thing.

I use Veet its one of the best things i have ever come across

Simply apply uniform layer have a cig and wash off.

Smooth silky and Super soft.

Take care

[Shone]

there are other ways too like hair removal products you can try them out. ya herbal products will be a good choice