[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, I think those women who say, "only do it if he do it" are selfish.

Why? Only do it if YOU WANT TO, after all it's your life, your body. If you are doing it only to please someone, then your not being yourself. On the same accord, compromising is good...

Most men in my opinion love it shaved with the landing strip, it's sexy, they can see more of your body and it's neat, and easy to conduct foreplay without the un-wanted, spit, ahh, etc.

However, gloria, not all men look at porn.. And, they shouldn't compare their woman to what they see on porn if they do look at porn, nor should a woman compete with porn and be what their man is watching.

This is about two people... Glad you personally find it sexy.. and yes, it's definately in my opinion more sensitive.

Just for the record? I'm ensuring that people don't think they have to do something just to please someone... Not you personally.

It's certainly a good think to do something that your loved one loves.. But not only for that reason.. to win or in the end they use.

CW

[pretzel]

Why? Only do it if YOU WANT TO, after all it's your life, your body. If you are doing it only to please someone, then your not being yourself. On the same accord, compromising is good...

Most men in my opinion love it shaved with the landing strip, it's sexy, they can see more of your body and it's neat, and easy to conduct foreplay without the un-wanted, spit, ahh, etc.

However, gloria, not all men look at porn.. And, they shouldn't compare their woman to what they see on porn if they do look at porn, nor should a woman compete with porn and be what their man is watching.

This is about two people... Glad you personally find it sexy.. and yes, it's definately in my opinion more sensitive.

Just for the record? I'm ensuring that people don't think they have to do something just to please someone... Not you personally.

It's certainly a good think to do something that your loved one loves.. But not only for that reason.. to win or in the end they use.

CW

I'm not sure I totally agree here. Yes, absolutely if it's something you want to do and shave in a way that makes you comfortable is important. That's true.

However, isn't a big part of a successful relationship also doing things that make your partner happy? Say, for example, that I really enjoy my wife being shaved totally clean. I find it a complete turn on and it enhances her beauty in my eyes. Would you want to do that knowing how much it turns him on?

Same is true for me also. If she came up to me and said that it would be a complete turn on for me to shave myself clean then my response would easily be "where's the razor".

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It's certainly a good think to do something that your loved one loves.. But not only for that reason.. to win or in the end they use.

Pretzel

See above, I totally agree with doing for your otherhalf.

Something about that post made me feel it was one sided, that she was doing it to please, whilst loved the feeling herself, it was ALL about him and not herself with him

Hense why I made the point, if wrong that's cool. But for anyone reading, don't do IT, for someone but for both of you, for him and for you, as equal...

I don't agree with people doing everything for "someone" in hope it makes the relationship.....

[pretzel]

Pretzel

See above, I totally agree with doing for your otherhalf.

Something about that post made me feel it was one sided, that she was doing it to please, whilst loved the feeling herself, it was ALL about him and not herself with him

Hense why I made the point, if wrong that's cool. But for anyone reading, don't do IT, for someone but for both of you, for him and for you, as equal...

I don't agree with people doing everything for "someone" in hope it makes the relationship.....

We're on the same page

Reading comprehension could be difficult today

[Fabulous Forty]

My husband and I both like me shaved with a landing strip. I love the sensation. For me, it is easier clean-up during my period. I enjoy him shaved too! From time to time he will shave and I really like touching him when he's all smooth. I think everyone should do what makes them feel sexy whatever way that is

[mr.mansview]

makes no diff..sometimes it's nice to ride in a convertible with the top down..sometimes with the top up

[Jim60]

Several years ago my wife shaved completely as a birthday surprise for me - I had tried to persuade her for ages! We both loved it for the different feel during love making, especially oral. I shaved my balls, great feel of skin on skin and again oral. She won't let me take it all off as says "won't look manly", so I just trim above. But I may do it anyway as a surprise, I think the sensation if we were both freshly shaved would be intense - if she really hates it it will grow back soon enough.

Recently I have been asking her to grow it back for a while, but she has never gone more than a couple of weeks before it's all off again, she just much prefers to be smooth now.

If I had to choose one way for ever it would be smooth.

[Hopeless Dork]

She won't let me take it all off as says "won't look manly", so I just trim above. But I may do it anyway as a surprise, I think the sensation if we were both freshly shaved would be intense - if she really hates it it will grow back soon enough.

I don't know about that one jim. If she has expressed to you that she thinks it does not look manly for a man to be all bare there... I think the sensations won't matter nearly as much as her emotional reaction to it. Sex is always more in the mind for a woman... and if her finding you to be a manly man is essential to her arousal that could really put a damper on things despite the sensations you think it may create.

I've heard a lot of women talk on this issue and the majority don't find it attractive for a man to be completely bare. Of course there are some women that do, but your wife has already told you that she isn't one of them.

Of course hair grows back and do what you wish... but if she has already told you she thinks its a turn off, i think it would jumping the gun to think you can prove her wrong on what she finds visually appealing.

[Jim60]

You're probably right - I haven't raised the subject for some time so may ask her again, on the basis it's a one off. It'd be a bummer to shave it all off and then she lost interest in it.

I've looked around the forums and I agree probably the majority of women aren't that keen on it.

Glad I read your post before I got the razor out!

[Happy8642]

My experience is that most man like shaved or trimmed...But i think it's different for everyone...