[jgirly44]

I am 14 turning 15 this May. I just recently got my period in December. The thing is, I don't have many signs of puberty or development. Yes, I have my period; yes I do have pubic hair, armpit hair, etc...; but I barely have breasts (I am between a 30-32A, barely anything there), I am only about 5'1, if even that, and i have practically no curves or signs of development. My voice is very high and my face looks really young. I understand everyone goes through the changes at different times, but I am somewhat developed and somewhat not, so I'm confused!! Help me please

[robbin]

i will be 21 tomorrow and i wear a 23A. and if you're 5'1" there's a good chance you won't get too curvacious if your mom is petite. i started my period in 8th grade. got the hair and all that in 5th grade. talk about poopy! i felt like i was missing out on something. my hips opened somewhere around my junior year of high school. if you wanna try enhacing your shape and forming curves, work out your obliques. the muscles on the sides of your stomach. i don't have alot of curves. and your voice... well we're not like boys, we don't really deepen, it just becomes more refined. my voice is still maturing and when i hear it on a recording i feel like i sound like a kid

[sourpuss]

jgirly, you sound completely normal to me. I wouldn't worry about it.

[jgirly44]

Thank you both! I felt like it was normal, but I'm just insecure about my petite body! I understand I may be overall small even when I'm an adult, but I feel like i should grow more. Who knows! Thanks for your replies !

[robbin]

i know exactly how you feel no problem. fell free to ask anything, even the same thing if you get insecure about it

[jgirly44]

Oh, I forgot to add in there that my mom is 5'6 with a 34B, and my 16-year-old sister is 5'5 with a 32 B...that's why I'm hoping I will grow more!

[robbin]

yeah well good luck my sister is a year younger and she's 5'7" with 34c's oh and my 17 year old sis has 40 something double d's! and i am 5'2" 120lbs and a32A but i'm happy. i love my small breasts! and because of my shape i can wear anything i want and it looks GREAT! i bet you look absolutely beautful!!!

i look back at pics when i was your age. i thought i was so ugly and had huge ears! but i really did look pretty.

[jgirly44]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that! I know whether I develop more or stay the same, I will eventually learn to be more comfortable and be proud of my body!

[sourpuss]

You're still so young. You're body will change a lot over the next 10+ years. I look back at pictures of myself when I was 18-19 and I look like a little kid. My clothes were way to big and I was tiny with no shape at all. If I wore a hat people thought I was a boy.