[tryingtobeme]

I'm 15, and i think i need to go the the gynecologists, but every time i try to tell my mom, nothing comes out. I have pain when i use the bathroom, and sometimes theres blood. This has been going on for a while now but I'm to scared to even say anything, I don't think I'll even be able to go even if i manage to tell my mom.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Have you had your first period yet? How long, is a long time sweet?

I know it's scary turning into a woman in that department, but you can't keep suffering pain can you.

If you have already started your period, it simply could be that you need to go on the pill because your body isn't adjusting to periods as it is meant to, and the pain is probably period cramps.. The pill will ensure that they are regulated 3 weeks without one, one week with..

Now, I want you to think of it this way where your Mum is concerned, she was your age once, she went through simular things.

Why do you fear telling her? Are you not that close or is it just because it's a problem down there?

It's okay, somewhere along the line we've all had and or do have problems there, unless you get it checked out you won't be able to solve it on your own...

CW

[Hopeless Dork]

I think you can call your local planned parenthood and tell them exactly what you just said right here, you can call anonymously and describe your symptoms and ask them what they think might be going on with you. I am not sure if they can do a check up without parental consent at your age or not but they will let you know.

It can be any number of things from something minor to something that requires medicine to make you healthy, but you can't suffer in pain in silence, no matter how scared you are of telling your mom you have concerns in that area, she is your mom and would not want you in pain and worried and getting you care will be important to her.

[WildChild]

When you say you have pain when you go to the bathroom, do you mean that it hurts when urinate? You could have a urinary tract infection. Drinking 100% juice, cranberry juice will help but you should see a doctor. Seeing your family practioner should be fine for this.

[tryingtobeme]

It's not my period. I've had my period sence I was 11, and this just stared a few months ago.

[crystal_clear]

Do something as soon as possible...don't be afraid, just see it as a new experience that will help you have more confidence and strength.
It may be an urinal infection, but I am not a specialist.
Please go to a planned parenthood, like someone suggested, as soon as possible.
It's gonna be alright.

[Ashlee T.]

You're 15......and it won't be long until you're an adult. Your mom is your best ally where this stuff is concerned. Are you afraid she's going to inquire into whether or not you're sexually active?

Is there anything else at all going on down there? Bumps, odd discharge, anything? If you're experiencing some burning during urination, an odd sensation while urinating, bloating, maybe even a lower back ache, blood in the urine, there's a good chance of a bladder infection or UTI. A simple urinalysis will tell you that...and an antibiotic will take care of it.

Why suffer any longer from this? If infection, it can get super painful and very bad if you don't get some meds. Go....get it taken care of...and as WC said, get some 100% cranberry juice and drink it daily, or take AZO Cranberry. Cranberry helps to PREVENT these, but it won't make it go away once you've got one.