[Guest]

Iam 21 years old and I recently had sex for the first time..my bf and I used a condom but it hurt too much that after he broke my hymen I didn't want to continue so we stopped. I was bleeding alot...i wore a pad for 2 days. I was really nervous and therefore very tight. i was sappose to get my period 6-7 days later...but it hasn't come now Im 6-7 days late.
Also when Im stressed I usually miss my period...2 yrs ago during school I missed my period for 6months b/c of stress...but for the last 6months its been fairly regular...I know these sound like excuses but Im really scared.
My thing is his penis didn't enter my vagina entirely...he broke me and that was it...I was really tight and he couldn't get inside.... and i stopped after the pain of the hymen braking.
I know its possible that I could be pregnant but could there be another reason for missing my period?

[imported_Nygirl5885]

take a pregnancy test and if you still feel insecure go to your doctor. its better to know whats going on than to stay confused and scared.

[Guest]

thanks

I know...but right now Im in the denial state..I know i will have to do a pregnancy test....to know for sure and then make an appointment with my doctor...but my fear is if Iam pregnant... whats going to happen next...I come from a catholic family its not going to be pretty...well thank you for the advice and eventually I will follow it..

[imported_Nygirl5885]

girl don't keep yourself in the dark. not knowing is actually the easy part. its when you find out that sh*t gets serious. will you keep it? how will you support yourself and your baby? will the guy stay around? your family ... well they'll get over it but whatever you decide you'll be the one whose reaLLY dealing with the consequences. i urge you to please take a test. find out for yourself and just in case you are pregnant and you want to keep it you can start early witha healthy pregnancy.

p.s. if you're not pregnant there is something called the day after pill. its not an abortion pill because all it does is kill the sperm so it doesn't travel anywhere. but if you've gotten pregnant it won't kill the process. just so you know for future reference.

[Guest]

I took a pregnancy test..and Im not pregnant....but I still want to know whats going on with my period...I made an appointment with my doctor. Yeah I know about the plan B pill but what I heard was it works within 5 days after having sex...and by the time I missed my period it was over the days required to take the pill.....thank you so much for your advice