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  • dazedcnh11
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2009
    • 1

    please read this and help!!!!!

    i was having sex with my boyfriend a couple days ago and he is about six inches long.when he went in deep i got this terrible sharp,brief pain in my lower stomach.when my last ex and i were dating,he and i had sex and it felt good when he went in deep.but i cant imagine why it hurts so much now!!please help me,i dont know whats wrong!!!!!

    thanks!
  • Katsaly
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2009
    • 127

    I know the pain you are talking about. I've figured it to be the result of the penis bumping the cervix and causing it to tug on the rest of your internal workings. This seems to vary based on level of arousal (if your vaginal expand further, this is less likely to happen), the angle of penetration, and the position of your body.

    You could talk to a doctor, but I don't know what they could do about it. If this is a common problem, avoid combining "deep" with "hard" at least for the first few thrusts to make sure it won't hurt.

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    • womenwise
      Member
      • Aug 2009
      • 10

      Shes right you are too tense,have a bath first, lots of foreplay, the womens body can handle this...Hes got to, learn to understand your body.

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