[Confused1317]

Ok 6 months ago i had my peroid ever 2 weeks for 3 months straight then it started to be regulated on the 16th of the month for 2 months. Now it's back to bleeding every 2 weeks. I have been under stress due to kids not listening and just alot of stress. But also when i have my peroid and a few days b4 i start bleeding there is a terrible odor that comes from my vagina. It is the most umpleasant smell in the world and i dont know what it is. Me and my Boyfriend have been trying to concieve for quite a while now and it's just not working at all. I get discouraged everytime i see blood, and think that im never going to get pregnant. I have had a miscarriage 3 1/2 years ago when i was 4 months pregnant. i got dialated and cleansed, and i wonder if that has something to do with it. or if i am just not fertile. Or if he is not fertile. Could it be a Stress Release or what?

It's not like a normal peroid it seems and looks like if you would cut your finger and blood drips from it. that is what it is. not thick or anything like it usually is. i dont understand it and it makes me so uncomfortable.
It's gotten to the point of when we first got together that he didnt' care he said it's "just blood" but now he doesn't even want to make love when i'm on my peroid, he gets ****ed and mad and then it leads to fighing and more stress and me crying cuz i feel bad that i'm on my peroid and i cant make love to him. What do i do... Someone please help me... What in the world is going on with me???!?!?!?!

[JuliaBarill]

First Relax! Take a deep breath and remember things allways get better 2nd Have you talk to your Obgyn Doctor? they are alotta help. Its sounds to me like you might have some kind of Chronic Vagnosis. All this is , is a bacterial infetion in the vaginal walls that all women get once in a while. It contains a strong fish like odor and can start and stop your period. Also if not treated it can spread into your cervix up you uterus and into you ovaries and very well might cause infertility. Also Stress plays a big part in our lives expecially women. If a womens body feels emotionaly that shes to stressed out without you or any girl knowing our bodies reject pregnancy thinking were not ready for it. Then again every woman is different. Listen talk to you gyno tell her/him everything youve mentiond. Also.....my fiance has intercorse with me on my period ....tell him its a natural part of life lol! but also some men dont prefer it. ok hunny good luck to you!!!!!!!

[JuliaBarill]

oh and couple more things....Bacterial vagnosis is easily treated with creams ...gels inserted. Also mention to your doctor you want An ultra sound done and a transvaginal to see your insides. And a couple tips......Folic acid 800mg ..improves your chances on being prenant.... lots of iron tooo....GOOD LUCK

[Confused1317]

I started taking pre-natal vitamins to see if that would up my folic acid and up the chances of concieving but my fiance thought that might me what is starting my peroids early. he siad i might have 2 many vitamins in my system and it's causing it so i stopped taking them. I dont have an obgyn doctor cuz i dont have insurance and i'm afraid to go to planned parenthood by myself but i'm so shy to see if my mom or sister will go with me and if they will turn me down because i dont have a job and i can't find one. I dont know what to do. I just want this terrible smell to go away. It is somewhat affecting our intamicy because im ashamed of the foul smell.

[Aputnam3]

Just a little tip, if the blood is bothersome, try having intercourse in the shower. Then he wont have to see it. Also, stress less! It sounds easy but is really hard. Take time for yourself to just stop, and relax. When you are stressed all kinds of whacky things can happen with your body. If you dont have insurance try your local health clinic. Also, last time I checked (although it has been a few years so I cant say for certain) planned parenthood does pregnancy tests and other similar things for free. Try using an over the counter medicine for the offending smell. Ask the pharmacist at your local drugstore which one they recommend for your particular problem. (I know it is embarassing but they are really helpful) I hope what I have suggested helps even a little. Good luck!