[reenajhonson]

i got married past 2 months, oct 15th.... me and my husband had sex over every night..but unlucky me, got my periods on the 10th of november which was very regular, n over again had sex ...wen i was ovulating the same month....but 3 weeks ago i had perod like cramping n light blood on my panty, litttle nause feeling and things....but got my periods again tis 11th dec, but lasted only for a day..... m a 30 day cycler...please help!! will i ever get pregnant m worried!!! me and my husbabd really wanting a baby....'m 20 yrs

[ItsASecret]

You have many more years of possible chances to get pregnant. Some people it happens right away and some it takes years all you can do is keep trying.

[Hopeless Dork]

All your nerves and anxiety about TRYING to get pregnant could be adding stress to your body which can affect your cycle and your hormones... just take a deep breath... and enjoy the sex with your husband. Follow a healthy diet, get routine exercise, get plenty of sleep... and be sure to get your guy good and turned on before your sessions so that he is shooting with max potential... also try to have a good time yourself because the female orgasm can help facilitate getting that sperm to the egg even more efficiently.

I'm sure the reason some couples get pregnant AFTER adopting is because they finally quit worrying about trying to have a baby. Don't let yourself get so stressed about it... you guys havent been trying for that long... and if you have only recently come off some sort of birth control it may take a while for your body to get ready...

Just love each other, enjoy each other and give it a year before getting yourself concerned over not getting pregnant.

[LanaBear]

Two months isn't that long... There is so much timing that goes into, but like the pp's state, you really need to calm down about it.

AND having sex every other day really doesn't benefit the cause at all. You need to pinpoint when you are ovulating and he needs to abstain from ejaculating for a good 3 days or so before you ovulate. This increases his sperm count.