okay i am 14 years old and 2 days ago when i was getting changed and i looked in my undies andi saw dried bronish(kinda red) with likesome little black bits so i thought it was my period finally.So i told my mom and she got me pads but ever since then i look in my undies an there is this clearish, light brown stuff and sometime a little pinkish blood. So now im really scared and confused, now is it my period or not?I dont wnna tell my mom now "oh ya i actually didnt get my period" becuse shes a freaks about those things she tke me right to the doctor and i am also really embessed to tell her. I really dont knw what to do an i really need avice....
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oh and i havnt had my period before... -
You're probably just experiencing some "spotting" which is a good indication that soon you'll probably be starting your actual period. I bet you're first period is just a very light one. And if you count about 30 days from the day that started, I'd bet you'll have a period.
Your mom has years of experience with periods. I'm sure she'd totally understand if you said "well, I thought I started but it seems like maybe I'm just spotting...either that or I just had a really light period". She shouldn't freak out over that.
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THank you soo much, you just made me feel 10 times better now that ik what it it
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