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  • Sagittarius
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2012
    • 2

    Help!!!!! My period is two weeks early!!!

    I got it on August 14th and today is September 1st. Up until now it´s only light bleeding kind of pinkish color mixed with brown. I went to my gynecologist like three months ago because I had been experiencing weird things during ovulation time. She told me everything I described was normal and she didn´t even tell me to get tests done because everything seemed normal, I don´t have any possible diseases in my family history, I don´t take the pill, I never had any other issue and I´m a virgin (I´m 23 years old). For the past couple of days I have been feeling some very mild pain in one ovary (which my doctor said is normal) and then today I woke up, I went for a walk as usual and when I came back I found this pinkish color in my underwear. I freaked out and now it´s late evening and it´s still happening.
    I don´t know if it´s ovulation or my period is two weeks early!!!!!!!
    I asked my mother and my friends and they all told it´s happened to them before and that it´s totally normal. However, I´m not so sure.

    Lately, I´ve been going through A LOT. This is gonna be boring, but girls and doctors are good for listening so here it goes:

    -My father´s company isn´t working so there have been issues related to lack of money in my house. I´ve been very worried about him being sad because he had a heart attack almost a year ago and I´m worried it might happen again.
    -My parents have been fighting constantly and my father had been saying terribly hurtful things to my mother who cries all the time.
    -I started working in a place and I actually love the job, but it makes me terribly anxious because I never had a job in my life before and I feel kind of like a child in a world of grown ups where I don´t belong.
    -In this new job I´ve been meeting a lot of new people including guys. Some of them have been flirting with me. It makes me terribly anxious to think that soon somebody may ask me out and I may start a relationship and then I would have to tell the poor guy that I am a virgin (something I´m not proud of). Having a relationship or just someone to go out with also means that I will be a woman in my parent´s eyes, which makes me very uncomfortable. Also, the idea of having sex makes me extremely anxious.
    -My cousin and one of the most important people in my life has colon cancer. She starts the treatment on tuesday but the doctors already say there isn´t much to do. I´ve been feeling really guilty about not spending enough time with her (we live far away and I work) and my defense mechanism is to deny everything and pretend nothing´s happening. Obviously, it isn´t working.
    -I hae a lot of pressure regarding college. I´m actually supposed to be studying right now.


    I also lost some weight because I only work five hours (from one to six thirty) and I´m supposed to eat lunch at home, but I live far away and I have atwo hour trip. So I´ve been skipping meals for a month.


    Please help me!!!!
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    Welcome Sag,

    Sorry for all the negative things happening around you and congratulations on your new job, give it time and you won't feel anxious anymore.. Go with the flow, remember that you love it and enjoy.

    Your Mother is right. It is normal.

    One of the reasons is all the anxiety you are going through, therefore, stress. Our body can't relate to that and changes left right and centre, often bringing spotting, or our periods earlier.

    Just breathe deeply, start walking a little, just for energy and calmness.

    Quit skipping meals, cut things up and take them to work with you, fatigue also will bring on anxiety.

    CW
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • Sagittarius
      Junior Member
      • Sep 2012
      • 2

      Thank you very much!!

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