[TheGameMan]

Hello Girls(& boys),

My girlfriend is 16years old, she's been acting very weird these past 2 days, wait i'll try to describe:

-Never letsme to touch her, not even her hand
-nervous
-a little depressed
-she's acting nice with her friends, she's being mean only with me
-never told me a nice word(she used to say me too when i tell her "i love you", but she doesn't even reponds to my msgs(gives a little bip to tell that she saw the sms)
-she has head-aches
-i feel that she's not the same person anymore, like i'm dating a Tiger

is she on period or there's something wrong?
and what to do? i'm verry worried because we're on final tests for a week
will that affect her studies?


Thanks for reading, i'm waiting for answers

[Harmony]

It sounds like she's upset about something...

[TheGameMan]

no i don't think so, she doesn't avoid me when she's upset
and she didn't use to be that nervous

and i didn't do anything to make her upset

[Harmony]

She's not pregnant is she?

[TheGameMan]

no of cours not!!! she's 16!!!
she's still virgin

[BabyGirl]

You are so sweet for worrying about her ..

But she is 16, Finals coming up. Christmas coming up .

16 is still adjusting to becoming a Woman . By 24 she should be Stabilized .. LOL

Yes Periods can be a reason.so can Stress and Family and Friends .

But she also may not be as deep into you as you are into her.

-never told me a nice word(she used to say me too when i tell her "i love you", but she doesn't even reponds to my msgs(gives a little bip to tell that she saw the sms)

The "I love you's " is or can be a bit overwhelming at her age , if it is a newer relationship and the I LOVE you is Expected to be a I Love you too . Instead of a Love ya's back and forth .


Lets see if we can help ..

So how old are you ?
How long have you dated ?
Do all of your friends and family think you are a Couple ?

When you say

she's acting nice with her friends, she's being mean only with me

How do you determine Mean ?

Could the " Crush or Interest " be one sided ?

[TheGameMan]

ok let's clarify a bit

i've no doubt in her love, that's 100% (i got my reasons, just consider it like this^^)

I'm 16 too, 5monthes older
we've been dating for 1year (she used to be like this sometimes but it never was that tough, it's 10times more intense, and i never knew about period troubles, i thought its spitting blood that's it)

Friends? yea
Familly, i doubt so, cuz i'm not the kind of mr.meet your familly

Mean: she doesn't talk to me outside(she saw me)
i met her the morning, after greeting, i took her hand(nothing abused) and ask if she's okay
she pulled her hand and said bye

like i said, we love each other, and in high school, we're the kind of (OMG WHAT A GREAT COUPLE, they fight but never break up)

[TheGameMan]

Girls? anybody? i need help here!

[KMonte85]

Does she ever tell you when she's on her period? If so, you could probably do the math yourself.

But don't ever, ever EVER ask her if she's on her period if/when she's acting strange/rude towards you. That could turn into WW3

[Little]

The best thing you can do is say "Hey, [girlfriend's name,] I feel like you're avoiding me lately. Is anything wrong? Is there something I can do to help you?"

For all you know, she could be very busy planning a surprise for you ... or it could be something bad. You can't know until you ask.