[Harmony]

That could turn into WW3

Sometimes is it best not to ask...

[Harmony]

Girls? anybody? i need help here!

Since this is obviously quite important to you I would suggest trying the, 'I'm worried about you, can we have a little chat?' approach. I would expect a girl her age to blow hot and cold quite frequently. Don;t be to pushy/clingy/needy with her, just try and play it cool, she'll likely be more put off the more she feels smothered. She needs to feel like her talking to you is more her ideal, more something she's chosen to do, as opposed to having been pushed into ;-)

[TheGameMan]

i asked her "veeeeeeeeeeeeeery kindly" for a talk, she said tomorrow evening, (the girl is avoiding me by the way)

i started to feel that's not a period and there's something wrong

i'll find out tomorrow anyway

[Euphoric]

It sounds like maybe she is ready to move on and rather than having a mature conversation about it, she's avoiding you, hoping you will save her the task of breaking up. It's discouraging, but if she doesn't have the same feelings for you it would be an injustice to both of you to be strung along. I hope the conversation goes well for you.