[leos]

hi
i m 20yrs old female/
i wnt to know tht just a smooch n nipple sucking can hv any effect on menses?
actually i was due to get my regular periods on 16th dec
but i did smooch n had nipple suck by my bf on 24th dec for d 1st time in my life
we didnt hav any sex at all.on tht day i had white secretion 4rm my vagina 4 d whole day.
now on 27th dec i m getting brown discharge just 3-4 times a day
bt i hadnt get my menses yet...
now there is no brown discharge even.

so i m very tensed.
pls help

[Little]

Well, you're not pregnant, first of all. In case you were worried. It's impossible.
Second of all, anything that affects your hormones (ie, sexual acts of any kind) can alter your menses. It's just hormones; don't worry about it.

[leos]

ok
thnx 4 telling
bt now i m getting just brown discharge..after interval of few days
like last i got on 27th dec
n now i got 2day-1st jan
y is it so?
when will i get my proper menses?
wht is white secretion which i got?

[Little]

Well, I'm 19, started puberty more than 7 years ago, and I'm still not regular. And I noticed any time my level of sexual activity changed, my period went pretty crazy.
The white secretion, as long as it doesn't smell, is normal.
The stress of the holidays is probably making your period erratic, too. So just wait for things everywhere to calm down ... give it 2-3 months, and if it's still strange, see your gynecologist. I'm just a woman, not a doctor, but usually periods at strange times are normal; nothing to worry about.

[leos]

thnx 4 telling
tht means i can carry out sexual activities without worrying abt menses?
r u sure? hav u consulted any doctor?

[Little]

Anything that won't make you pregnant is perfectly safe, no matter what is going on with your period. I'd even say penetrative sex would be okay, except that if you do that and your period is still being irregular, you might think you're pregnant, adding more stress, and making your period even more irregular. That's just common sense; no need for a doctor.
Women's health issues are pretty messed up in the medical field, anyhow ... a year ago, I was having one-sided stomach pains and diarrhea, had only had sex twice, protected, and all the doctor wanted to do was give me a pregnancy test ... he didn't even tell me he was going to do it.
Go straight to a gynecologist if you decide you need a doctor's attention; especially don't go to a religious clinic (around here, they're the ones with "Baptist" in the name ...) They don't treat unmarried women with lower-body health problems with much respect.

[leos]

thnx 4 ur help