[Scaredgirl00]

I’m a virgin and for a month now of been having feeling of constant arousal. It went away two weeks ago but now I have feeling of my clitoris being erect but when I look it’s not at least not I could see. I’m not turned on at all.It comes and goes it weird nowhere online does it tell me what could be wrong. I don’t want to go to gynecologist for this. I’m scared there is something like a tumor causing this I have health anxiety. What could this be

[Ashlee T.]

Is there pain associated with this, or just a feeling of the clitoris area being hardened or engorged? I HIGHLY doubt you have a tumor based on what you've said but you do need to look at the area and look for unusual redness, puffiness, discharge, etc.

[Scaredgirl00]

No pain or anything no redness or anything unusual. That’s why I’m worried it’s weird.

[Ashlee T.]

Well, that would make me less worried. Try making sure your underwear are not too tight. Wear some loose undies and comfortable loose pants for a few days. Maybe you're wearing something that is applying some pressure to that area causing it to engorge.

[Scaredgirl00]

I’m sorry its difficult to explain as I’m not familiar with the parts of vagina. I usually know if I was turned on and would see the clitoris erect but I don’t see it now and not aroused I can’t tell if it’s the clitoris or or the hood. It’s confusing I’m still worried it’s causes by a tumor in the ovary or something.

[Scaredgirl00]

I just wiped my clitoris hood and light brownish blood came out in scared to death now

[Kaylyne]

Gosh. You're 30yrs of age and you don't know your own genitalia?

[Scaredgirl00]

Well I don’t know how you know my age cause i didn’t say but being a virgin at 30 isn’t something to be ashamed of. I’ve haven’t any experience due to anxiety who are you to judge me

[atskitty2]

Your profile shows you're 30

You're right, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 30, or at any age. It may actually decrease your anxiety tho, if you knew and understood your body better. That has nothing to do with sex. You can learn the parts of anatomy, and details on their function on the web.

It sounds like there's some stimulation there tho, that you just don't realize is happening. Could be from clothing. If it continues and you're unable to isolate the cause, you will want to see your gyno for evaluation. That's going to be the best way to be sure, and return your peace of mind.

Has it improved since your original post?

[Kaylyne]

Scaredgirl00 My sincerest apologies if you thought I was judging you, indeed that was the furthest from my mind or intention.
atskitty2 has mentioned your age shows up in your profile.
I was just somewhat amazed and curious as to how or why you didn't know the various parts of your vulva, and most certainly didn't intend to upset or offend you in any way.
My most profound apologies once again.
Please do take care and stay safe.