But thank you ladies for helping me feel better. I actually did think about J Lopez and she is beautiful. It’s only been 12 days since my surgery. I hope I can get over this and embrace it ASAP.
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Thank you ladies so much for your replies. It makes me feel better having so much support! My breasts are still small but the positive side is that they are not as deflated as they used to be. I don’t think anyone would be able to tell that I have implants. I still wear my XS tops and look the same when I’m dressed. It’s a shame because this whole thing was bad communication from the doctors office. There was about a month between my pre-op visit and my surgery date. No one from the office cared to call me at all during that time. All I got was a text reminder the day before about my surgery time. In the one month I talked to a lot of friends and decided I didn’t want to do large 450 CC anymore. So when I saw the doctor the day of my surgery and told him I didn’t want 450 he said he didn’t have anything smaller on him except a 350 base and I said ok because there weren’t any other options. I think a 400 would have been ideal. I’m still small like seriously just a B.
But thank you ladies for helping me feel better. I actually did think about J Lopez and she is beautiful. It’s only been 12 days since my surgery. I hope I can get over this and embrace it ASAP. -
Please remember that your breasts need time to heal and to settle into the right place after your initial surgery. It can take even more than three months before you see the final results. To help your implants settle into the right place, and to improve your overall results, you may perform implant exercises (ask your surgeon about them).Comment
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I have to second atskitty2's post. I think you got a poor consultatation and this is why you're unhappy with the results. You should've had a much more informative and helpful consultation than you did. Perhaps you would consider complaining? You're clearly unhappy with the service you received: and you are in no way to blame. You needed more time in the consultation room.
Whether or not you tell the surgery this is up to you. But - again - you are not to blame for being unhappy. I think you were time pressured and should not have been.Comment
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I also get random question marks, and I have no idea why.
Glad you're feeling maybe a bit better about it. And if you're only a couple weeks post-op, you may still have some inflammation, and other things that are not giving you the full effect of what your breasts will finally look like. So, hang in there...
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