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Is ejacualtion during a professional massage normal?

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  • Is ejacualtion during a professional massage normal?

    I'm on Strattera I hear that's a side effect. During the massage I'm naked under the covers so relaxed massage feels incredible! I'm not thinking anything sexual not even sexually aroused no erection and I ejaculate out of the blue no matter what I'm doing wherever I'm at. But lately I've accidentally ejaculated during my massage not even sexually aroused not thinking anything sexual and I ejacualate under the covers I'm too afraid to tell me massage therapist. I don't want her thinking I was jacking off what do I do tell her. They wash the sheets for every client I know that doesn't make it ok but should I tell her or just say nothing?

  • I would not say anything unless it becomes part of the conversation. It is nothing the massage therapist has not seen before.
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    • I'm not thinking anything sexual not even sexually aroused no erection and I ejaculate out of the blue no matter what I'm doing wherever I'm at
      So this is a common occurrence for you? No matter where you are? How do you cope with that, have you seen someone about that?

      It is common for a masseur to rock your body back and forth in the process of massage, at least Thai women. Naturally that can create friction and orgasms of sorts.
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      • It doesn't bother me elsewhere I'm dressed then.

        Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
        So this is a common occurrence for you? No matter where you are? How do you cope with that, have you seen someone about that?

        It is common for a masseur to rock your body back and forth in the process of massage, at least Thai women. Naturally that can create friction and orgasms of sorts.
        It happens on occasion elsewhere fully dressed it dries quick not like I'm walking around with a big oyster in front of me. Happens sometimes getting out of the shower or sitting down at work on my fork lift let it dry good but you can hardly tell even then. Or cleaning up going bathroom and it just comes out. Not like everyday. When I'm at home privately if it happens I'm like ok good might as well get there orgasm finish the whole way without doing the hard work. Other times is just an inconvenience all well just keep about my day. But it's didn't used to happen before taking Strattera for my ADHD and lately those massages felt so dang good and relaxes my whole body lately its been happening I come underneath the sheets while she is massages my neck area or my shoulders or some other area. I just feel so embarrassed I just keep my mouth shut pretend it didn't happen. What I'm I supposed to do tell her "stop I just came!"

        I'm only worried after she picks up the sheets I'm assuming she wears gloves and picks up the bottom sheets cause men and women naturally leak a little it's just natural plus just being sanitary. Before I was on my medicine and all this was happening I asked cause I have OCD asked if they wash after each client and put fresh sheets down she said yes.!

        I'm just worried by chance she sees big wet spot under the sheets and think I jacked off when I didn't just happens without touching myself.

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        • I think maybe you should seek an opinion about this drug Strattera. It sounds as if everything was fine before hand, I am more concerned that it may cause you anxiety over it happening, though I must say you are handling the situation really well, good for you.

          Do you go to the same masseur each time? And, from what you are saying it's not a lot right, so she would perhaps think you are just a sexual person, (sensual) and so the relaxation sets it off not because of her.
          PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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          • Well I had a massage today it didn't happen but last time it wasn't a little it was the whole load but I wasn't with an erection it just pumped out. I just kept talking making conversation like I always do when it was happening.

            I was nervous she was gonna ask me about it but there's like two thin blankets I guess she just grabbed it all from the bottom sheet and throws in their washer. Then put clean sheets down for next client Just figured if she ever in the future asks if I masturbated in the sheets just be honest about my side effect of my medicine.

            But other times just happens. And yes I'm a very sexual person I masturbate allot on occasion look at porn. By accident is ok. I just didn't want her to think I'm a perv. Not that I didn't want to masturbate after she walks out she says take your time getting up ok. I lay there a few minutes wake up cause I'm so tired relaxed. I want to just masturbate so bad. But not proper place for that even though its in a private room. But I've often gone home went in room locked the door and took care of it. Cause I often feel like that full feeling and if I don't masturbate every other day minimum. I'm cranky and I just need that fix. But I don't need porn I'm trying to stay away. Self love accepting myself how I look how I dress I just recently gone commando I wear Nike sweats or Old Navy polyester track pants.

            I am very sexually solo active wife is not sexual like me. When kids get to school and their at school not in the house I lay on my bed masturbate with bedroom door wide open so when wife walks by in kitchen she sees me says jokingly what are you doing? I say what's it look like having my way with myself LOL it's a turn on when she watches. I always tell her love you before I come. Haha oops sorry going off topic. Haha thanks all for your reassurance and support. I won't go to doctor or company Strattera about this side effect it's like a blessing in disguise to me. I like the side effect.

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            • I don't understand.

              You like the side effect, but there is no erection, so it's the thrill of what occurred? Do you actually want to be caught out? Because I don't understand why you wrote this thread and appear worried but then end the thread with you like the side effect.
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • I like the side effect if it happens when I'm alone at home or sitting on fork lift working. Another time there was a different massage therapist after she left the blanket rubbing on me as I was taking it off of me it happened a little. Or getting out of the shower sometimes towel touches me. But while I'm getting a massage and it happens yea I'm embarrassed that it'll soak thru and she'll be like HELLO! Sometimes I was more worried of her freaking out. But then yes there's that part of me is like yea felt so dam good I came! Haha but at first embarrassed.

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                • xbox.

                  There are serious side effect to Strattera.

                  Can you tell me what other things you may suffer that you don't think you suffered before you went on them?

                  Also, is it good do you think to do this, as you are married and isn't that reserved for your wife, I understand you have ADHD.

                  CW
                  PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                  • What's reserved for my wife you saying my wife owns my cum or it belongs to my wife? Wtf my wife has no sexual drive what so ever I'm lucky if I get laid 2x a month. Once for sure. So yea I masturbate every other day I've always had a high sex drive always have always will. Masturbation is healthy and normal. Porn well that's once in awhile and no person has the right to tell me wether its ok or not. It's a healthy way of expressing and releasing my sexual desires. As my wife is unable or unwilling to provide.

                    And I'm not gonna focus or read all the side effects to the medicine cause then I'll focus on those side effects and my mind will make it happen because you think it your body responds in that way. I've done it before on other medicines so I don't focus on reading the possible side effects. I think positive thoughts feeling good feel healthy feeling great!! The ejaculating with no erections is the obivious that I can just plain see and feel as it only happened before with erection from masturbation or sex.

                    But no from talking about it I'm over the embarrass part. If it happens while getting a massage I won't feel guilty or get a complex from worrying about her noticing. Ill just be bluntly honest and if she confronts me privately about noticing after I leave I'll be honest say yea it's a side effect of my medicine and just explain how its happened ever since been on it. Add little funny your massage felt so great I came. LOL But the benefits of my mind being clear out ways me not being on it.

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                    • Ok, I am all for being a positive person, no point focusing on negativity, I agree. But, if you ever feel strange, sick, that's the time to view it further.

                      And, no I didn't not state nor mean that your wife owns anything. Just don't get excited if you ejaculate in-front of another woman, I think.. It's called respect. That was what I was referring to, nothing else.
                      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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