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  • pikushi
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2008
    • 2

    I need help on a g-spot orgasm?


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    I am 17 years old, and have been sexually active for a very long time and my boyfriend of about 8 months..we have the greatest sex I've ever had or can imagine
    ....

    I am very confused, I find myself searching up how to have an orgasm all the time. Yes, I have had a clitoral orgasm hundreds of times by myself and with my boyfriend stimulating me/oral sex/me on top having sex/him on top--rubbing against me.

    I am very very interested in having female ejaculation (or squirting) or just COMING a real come would be very nice.. I've tried to stick my 2 fingers in and stimulate some area? but nothing ever feels that good to me. It only feels extra good when my boyfriend has intercourse with me or uses our small vibrator in-and-up my vagina (which I guess would be my gspot?) because it drives me crazy when we do it doggie style and he puts his legs on the outside of mine and goes downwards so it rubs the front of my vaginal wall or when he puts my legs above his shoulders and it's rubbing against my front wall

    anyways he says he would love it if I squirted, and I sometimes tell him he probably needs to stimulate me more. I know you feel like you're going to pee when it's suppose to come out. And I have felt that once when I was on top of him going at it really hard
    I just want some help. And has anyone else had trouble trying to orgasm this way? I just want some advice and help from people that think they don't have a g spot haha
    I have also read every girl can have a g spot orgasm it just takes time/patience/practice

    ahh help

    thanks
    Last edited by Alison H.; 04-30-2021, 04:54 PM.
  • sTyLeRock
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2008
    • 103

    Well most the girls i've gotten with aren't to responsive with the G-Spot tbh..

    now.. THE DEEP SPOT :O that is like the hidden secret art of how to get a women to climax

    read up on it

    as for squirting there are many guides and alot do work, look at david shades how to give a women wild screaming orgasms book it has a guide on how to squirt and how to awaken your senses down there.

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      I'm multi orgasmic, cum consistantly with intercourse as well as other stimulation but haven't gotten the g-spot thing either. I don't worry about it. I mean only 30% of women cum with intercourse, a shocking number say they've never orgasmed, I figure I'm way ahead of the game and stressing certainly won't improve anything. Here I go again, check out Extended Massive Orgasm.

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      • miffed23
        Veteran Member
        • Mar 2008
        • 568

        Originally posted by WildChild
        I'm multi orgasmic
        You are my idol.

        Originally posted by pikushi
        I've tried to stick my 2 fingers in and stimulate some area? but nothing ever feels that good to me. It only feels extra good when my boyfriend has intercourse with me or uses our small vibrator in-and-up my vagina (which I guess would be my gspot?) because it drives me crazy when we do it doggie style and he puts his legs on the outside of mine and goes downwards so it rubs the front of my vaginal wall or when he puts my legs above his shoulders and it's rubbing against my front wall.
        Youre on the right tracks... making a beckon motion with your finger facing toward you will help you locate the g-spot... it'll feel bumpy and quite likely, you'll feel like you need to go to the toilet. Sometimes women can orgasm through this motion alone, you'll need to experiment with pressures.

        My advice would be to invest in some toys that are specifically designed for g-spot stimulation... the we-vibe is fantastic, plus you can use it whilst having intercourse...this is how i 'found' my first g-spot orgasm.

        Reverse cowgirl is a good position for g-spot stimulation... so you could perservere with that? Just relax through the need to urinate and hopefully you'll get there...

        Good luck, your sex life sounds incredibly healthy.

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        • fellowsquare
          Member
          • Oct 2008
          • 16

          Your Gspot is deep and up. That's pretty much it. Have your BF reach in deep with 2 fingers and push up inside you. It's not like having your clit rubbed. It's the "ceiling" of your vagina... just rub the inside of it... youll know when he hits it. it might even help when he's pushing up that you pusdown on your lower abdomen right where his fingers are, youll feel it. that's your Gspot.
          - Your Fellow Square

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          • SorridLives
            Veteran Member
            • Nov 2007
            • 397

            Hi,

            I really don't know that anybody knows the hows and whys of G-spot orgasm fully. All I can really tell you is that I did not have a g-spot orgasm until I was in my late 30's! Even then, they were rare for quite some time. Now, I have them whenever I want, though it is much easier with a vibe than during intercourse. Although, I can have them during intercourse too.
            My advice, if you don't want to wait....get yourself a vibe and just go with the flow. You might have a g-spot orgasm! It seems the more you have the more you are going to have....having them makes it easier to have more them! It's a strange, wonderful thing!

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            • CHANDLERS WISH
              • Mar 2008
              • 22440

              Originally posted by fellowsquare
              Your Gspot is deep and up. That's pretty much it. Have your BF reach in deep with 2 fingers and push up inside you. It's not like having your clit rubbed. It's the "ceiling" of your vagina... just rub the inside of it... youll know when he hits it. it might even help when he's pushing up that you pusdown on your lower abdomen right where his fingers are, youll feel it. that's your Gspot.

              Been through these threads, done that you are not describing the G-Spot , the G- spot is located about 1 - 2 inches inside a woman. But it is the ceiling you are correct.

              However, going deep and a woman "opening up" is called consumiting her marriage , bugger.. apparently...


              CW
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • Little
                • Feb 2007
                • 4329

                Originally posted by CHANDLERS WISH
                However, going deep and a woman "opening up" is called consumiting her marriage , bugger.. apparently...
                What? Consummating your marriage means having sex with the person you married. You need to look things up :P
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                • CHANDLERS WISH
                  • Mar 2008
                  • 22440

                  What? Consummating your marriage means having sex with the person you married. You need to look things up :P
                  Yeah, AGREE note the comment: "bugger, apparently".... I had a strange "ex-husband", who assumed "opening up" mean't that WE JUST CONSUMMATED OUR MARRIAGE" but I had only been friggen going out with him for just over a month... And, so he proposed...

                  :P

                  , was meant to add a question mark (?) together with a and then do a spell check...

                  CW
                  PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                  • miffed23
                    Veteran Member
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 568

                    Originally posted by fellowsquare
                    Your Gspot is deep and up. That's pretty much it.
                    Yea...

                    I think what youre referring to is the cervix.

                    There is no need to deep-sea dive, the tissue (g-spot) is located 1-1.5 inches on the front wall - your belly side... it has a bumpy texture, like i said before, and when aroused will swell to the size of a walnut.

                    Have fun sweetie...

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