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    Originally posted by krazymonkey3589
    I am a virgin and my boyfriend and i are planning to have sex soon, but everyone tells me it hurts alot the first time. I was wondering, how long should we wait to have sex again after the first time?
    Until you are married. Now everyone hates me!

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      Originally posted by The_Average_Man
      Until you are married. Now everyone hates me!
      Ahh hate is too strong a word and should never be applied, in my opinion.

      And, judging on all that marry and then have no sex life because, it wasn't what they wanted out of a partner, but didn't know to start with, I am going with today's age, not yesterday and state, definately feel your partner out in all facets before marriage because marriage should be life long, that part I still agree with...

      CW
      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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      • pocari
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        • Jan 2009
        • 116

        it will hurt for the first 5 minutes, but note that u must free your mind and let it be instead of worrying and thinkin abt the pain, it is normal. also your partner must go slow for the first time. that should be okay.
        Just living is not enough. One must have sunshine, freedom, and a little flower. ~Hans Christian Anderson

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