[rcoreyus]

Sex is really important to a relationship. There are some honorable men like Fire(m) who will not sleep around even if their spouse denies them, but a lot will. A lot will find that sex lets them be happy with someone else, and despite having once loved their spouse, will leave. The ones that don't leave are likely to be depressed and angry with their spouses.

Sex forms a very strong emotional bond between people. Its not called "making love" without good reason.

[no_desire33]

Thank you for all your responses!

My husband tells me all the time that I'm the only one he wants.. I mean, I notice a hot chick before he does!! lmao! he has said over and over that he'll never leave me and if we did divorce (it would be my decision) that he would never be with another woman.. now, I don't know how much of that I believe.. divorce is our LAST option.. I want to make this work.. and hopefully going to the doctor will help!

I'm content with just snuggling and kissing.. I don't need sex and could honestly live without it.. I don't even masterbate anymore... I want that passion and desire I once had!!!

I love my husband and this has gone on too long and it's time I fix it!! he says that his heart aches when we go without sex for awhile (which is ummmm, all the time ) I always thought he was just weird... now that I've read other men's point of views, I know he's not "just weird"

I will try everything possible to better our situation.. any other input would help too.. I enjoy reading your responses

[Huntersmom91107]

Nodesire 33, I feel the same way and it's scary... I love my husband more than anything... I have laid there and just let him do his thing... I dont want him to leave but in the same I wouldnt blame him if he does... Weird... But I love him so much that he shouldnt have to live like this...

[no_desire33]

Nodesire 33, I feel the same way and it's scary... I love my husband more than anything... I have laid there and just let him do his thing... I dont want him to leave but in the same I wouldnt blame him if he does... Weird... But I love him so much that he shouldnt have to live like this...

Yes exactly!!!! OMG! it is scary

I WANT to want him.. but my body says otherwise.. UGH! sometimes I feel just as frustrated as he is!

What have you done to better your situation? how long has it been going on?

[Huntersmom91107]

No Desire

Hey, I've actually told him those exact words... "I want to want you"
We talked about it.
We still don't have sex. But I think that he understands. He tries to bond a little better with me, but it's difficult.

I really dont know what to say or do to make things right anymore. But I'm trying

If you ever need someone to talk to, let me know.

[Shannon1]

FIRE(M) Good luck to you... You seem like a very genuine husband that cares deeply for your wife, and I hope that someday you can get what you deserve out of your marriage.