[zeos133]

have you tried watching porn while having sex? it seems possible to combine the two. Some girls don't like this because they prefer to be the center of attention, but if you're ok with him fantasizing about another woman while being with you it could work. But I would only do this if you're really into him and thinking long term. More than likely if you start this habit it will be hard to break. Porn can be very addicting. but if you both get what you want then it could be a good thing. good luck.

[kailua]

I am having the a similar issue with my man. We are older, I am almost 39 and he is 41. We had this crazy sex life...I loved it. I have not caught him, but I do know that he has goes to porn sites..when confronted he claimed them to be pop-ups, which I know they are not..and this is daily. I cannot say he was depressed but did go through a change of careers, as he was so unhappy at his previous job, which changed our social scene, friends etc. The thing is he will not even admit it, and with the openness we have had, I am surprised...it is like catching a kid in the cookie jar...I have left hints for him...as much as I do not think it is wrong to watch porn, with him being sneaky about it, it truly hurts...it almost makes me wonder what else he is sneaky about!!!