[NEGI]

I'm 21 and basically i've been going out with my new girl friend for two months now.
Thing is, unlike my ex's i can't find her g-spot...

I know where it should be (i take an interest in doing things right) but i'm unable to feel anything!

I can make her orgasum easy via the clit but intercourse it just isn't happening... she says she's feeling something but i look at the bigger picture and that's pleasing her. Every time with have sex i try new ways so i'm open to anything apart from freaky stuff...
I thought to myself okay, because she's a virgin maybe it takes a while for the g-spot to become known. Even after she's cum via the clit i still can't feel it and thats when it's meant to be most feelable.

I'm beginning to think she doesn't have one

Is there anything i can do?

[WildChild]

Never found mine either and I'm old enough to be your mom! Haven't noticed that it causes a lack in satisfaction. Only 30% of women cum with intercourse and a surprising number claim to have never orgasmed. Don't get too hung up on this, you'll make her self conscious and that could shut down all orgasms. By all means keeps exploring ways to pleasure her but not with specific expectations everyone is different just go with what works for her.

[Guest]

if you found it with an ex g/f its near the same spot and you should find it again.

thats another fun thing about sex, searching for things. its like a treasure hunt. your indiana jones and her g-spot is the treasure that needs to be hunted out. once you find her treasure you'll have lots to enjoy.
now go and get the indiana outfit (hat and whip) and go roll play.

oh god, that sounded corny come to think of it but i am deleteing!

[OGFL]

the gspot isn't always in the same exact place in every girl




my advice trying searching a little deeper or more towards the entrance and see if that comes up with anything

[Guest]

i know thats why i said "NEAR" and if he found it on one he can find it on another.
the fun is in the search though.

[silvertae]

Not every woman even has a g-spot, so yeah, don't pressure her or worry about it too much. If she's having orgasms and satisfied, be happy with that. Also, some women don't even like it being stimulated. My sister said she went hunting for her g-spot and when she found it she hated the feeling.

[lookininlusby]

okay well the g-spot is on the anterior wall of the vagina (frontal wall towards abdomin) about an inch and a half in its bumpy feeling and not very large.. feel up there for that ridgid area and you know your in the right place and dont get discouraged if its not the best for her most women have orgasim from clitoral stimutation..

[shargrave]

Don't feel too bad... My fienca was my first and for a while he couldn't make me orgasm through vaginal sex. Just keep exploring and try different positions. Different possitions cause different stimulation. Not all women orgasm the same way. Your gf just might not be able to get off that way and that doesn't mean that there's something wrong.

[hc8690]

I'm 21 and basically i've been going out with my new girl friend for two months now.
Thing is, unlike my ex's i can't find her g-spot...

I know where it should be (i take an interest in doing things right) but i'm unable to feel anything!

I can make her orgasum easy via the clit but intercourse it just isn't happening... she says she's feeling something but i look at the bigger picture and that's pleasing her. Every time with have sex i try new ways so i'm open to anything apart from freaky stuff...
I thought to myself okay, because she's a virgin maybe it takes a while for the g-spot to become known. Even after she's cum via the clit i still can't feel it and thats when it's meant to be most feelable.

I'm beginning to think she doesn't have one

Is there anything i can do?

my advice is ask her ? my boyfriend was having a hard time so we talked about it . i told him what i do to make myselfe orgasm. and he then was able to find my spot. every woman and man are different . ask her. or. let her take advantage of you. if shes a girl who gets off by her clitorouse have her get on top of you and hold on to your shoulders.(help her out too) her clit will rub against your body causing an orgasm.

try it. who knows.

[lovemyself1]

its great that you are that in tuned to a woman's body and that curious!! more men should be that way. i agree...dont pressure her..only one man found mine and i didnt care for it. i was uncomfortable and it wasnt as great as i've seen in adult films. maybe i just need to get used to it, but i'm more than satisfied w/the way things are w/out the g-spot.
talk with her, maybe you wont find it but just enjoy your moments together anyway. dont get frustrated.