[redhead22]

my bf only like oral (giving and receiving) but i like vaginal intercourse as well as oral. i asked and he said oral felt better. any tips on how can i make intercourse good for him too?

[shweedart]

practice practice practice, try different things, he's bound to like it eventually. New positions, teasing, role playing ladedadeda..

[secrets_safe8290]

I agree with trying new things. Also maybe this is something that you should descuss with him. A lot of men are insecure about themselves maybe he is conserned that he can not please you as well with vaginal sex as well as oral.

[redhead22]

thanks for the advice =)

[crzyredhead21]

I'm sorry but what? lol... have you guys had intercourse before? Have you dressed up or roleplayed maybe? Something to spicen things up a bit? Sorry but I think I may need a little more background on the situation.

BTW welcome fellow redhead!!

[redhead22]

yeah, we've had our fair share of intercourse but whenever we start to get worked up, he wants oral and then is done. i would like to have oral then intercourse. i love giving and recieving oral but that is just the begining for me. i tried a few things like dressing up, strip tease and new positions and have asked him, but he still said that intercourse just didn't feel as good as oral.

[redhead22]

oh an when we do have intercourse, he is always really passive and always wants me on top.

[crzyredhead21]

Hmmmm.. usually what I do is start giving him oral and then right before he's ready to "go" I stop and he will almost evey ime what to finish with sex. Make sure you're being taken care of as well. Whether it's with oral or manual simulation while you're giving him a BJ. You ver tried any dominatrix stuff with him? He may get a kick out of it becaue he seems so passive. You could get dressed up, maybe tie him up and start telling him what you're goint odo with him. Just a suggestion. Good luck and dont forget that your needs are JUST as important as his!

[redhead22]

Thanks =)

[rcoreyus]

Make sure he isn't worried about pregnancy - that can be a real fun killer.

If not, then alternate things. Oral to completion some times, sex others.

I agree with the an earlier poster that he might like to be dominated a bit. Tie him up, then you can do what you want with him.

Also, I don't know how long the relationship has lasted, but his interest in oral may be satiated after a while and he will want something else.