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    Originally posted by cassie66
    my hubby has never ever given me an orgasm


    Me thinks you need to change that one!!!!

    Is there any reason why, does he not know how, is it hard for you to O or is he just lazy????

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    • mewhenim
      Senior Member
      • Feb 2009
      • 133

      my ex would never do that 'cause he's scared of his own jizz lol

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      • Hopeless Dork
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2008
        • 4255

        I like oral but I prefer it with added finger penetration, just oral by itself I could take it or leave it really. But I do enjoy the intimacy aspect of him going down on me , I don't know it just feels like he really cares when he does it. I had trouble allowing him to go there with me at first, always pulling him back up but I am learning to relax more and let him do it. Its not that the licking sensation doesnt feel good it does, but to me its just almost teasing if I don't have something I can bare down and squeeze on.

        I think the fluid exchange is a turn on because its trust, its closeness, its intimacy and just heats up the scene to me. He kisses me after I've had him in my mouth and vise versa. I would be so turned off by a guy that refused to kiss me after pleasing him, its good enough for me but not for you? pfft yeah right.
        Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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        • ThexMrs
          Veteran Member
          • Feb 2009
          • 3335

          Sheesh... I miss my boyfriend. Haha!

          I loved the comment about the "Food Pyramid." That was great.

          For me, I don't have any problem with tasting myself whether it is off of his fingers, his "man-hood" or his lips. I'll even taste myself for him. I think it is incredibly hot.

          My question is, what's the big deal about that?

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          • cassie66
            Veteran Member
            • Dec 2008
            • 333

            ive never had any off my hubby he just wont do it ever
            blaze is the messiah

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            • Steph33
              Veteran Member
              • Jan 2009
              • 249

              I originally found this site because I wanted to make sure my BF was basically normal because of how much and often he wants to give me oral sex. Doesn't have to be in a full session, he just likes doing it whenever and wherever I let him by itself. When we do make love till we both cum, he likes going down on me as the final part before the holding, talking, calming down, afterplay. I enjoy it and sometimes cum again but after a normal session I'm normally spent.

              He generally needs a considerable rest between full bore extended rounds of intercourse. But when I do get off from his final gift, he gets a full erection all over again. But I feel bad for him then because like a lot of men, he hasn't had time to "refill" and can't produce a release again so soon after the first time even though he has all kinds of want to. Some of you are really lucky, in the past no guy I ever knew would ever even consider going down on me after releasing inside me. Guess they didn't like the idea of tasting themselves.

              I think it's a very sweet and giving thing for a guy to do so I get a lot from it emotionally. Now if I could just convince him after 3 years to let me give him oral until he cums in my mouth.

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              • nsharonew
                Member
                • Feb 2009
                • 11

                I had never even considered it until my current boyfriend, who calls himself a freak who gets off on woman getting off (ahem...lucky me, huh?) At any rate, the first time he went down after we had already done it, I thought it was really weird, but after about 12 seconds, I also didn't really care.

                Likewise, I had never gone down on a guy after until him, but he is a lot more open with me, I guess I had low self-esteem or something, but I was afraid it would taste bad, and it didn't.

                I can't say what my hang-up used to be about it, or if there was even a hang-up, but no issues with it on my end!

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                • lovemyself1
                  Member
                  • May 2008
                  • 99

                  i too love oral. my guy will go down on me after he finishes if i really want him to, but otherwise he gives me oral all the time! 69 is so hot when we both reach orgasm at the same time!! oooohhhhh, its great! i recommend people to try it if you havent. i'm glad i have a man that likes it and does it just how i like it. my ex husband didnt care for it. that always made me feel bad, like i tasted bad or something. but it wasnt me...it as all him....haha.
                  anyway, oral good. thats my story and i'm stickin to it.

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                  • sTyLeRock
                    Senior Member
                    • Aug 2008
                    • 103

                    hmmm

                    Well i love giving and receiving oral,

                    But has any guy every gone down on there Significant Other after they've cum inside them w/o a condom?

                    THis isn't something i've thought about much so wouldn't mind an idea on wht other thinks

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                    • SinisterUrge
                      Veteran Member
                      • Feb 2008
                      • 370

                      Originally posted by sTyLeRock
                      But has any guy every gone down on there Significant Other after they've cum inside them w/o a condom?
                      Lets redirect you to the appropriate thread.. Oh wait, this is that thread. Go back to page 1 and start re-reading.

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