[kay101]

Ok so how many times would anyone say is normal for sex in a week, because my boyfriend says its every day, twice some days, and if he doesnt get it he starts an argument, ive only ever been with him and so have no experience, please help......!!!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It's as many times as "you" both feel...

There is no answer to this question.....

Ideally, if you are new together, lots, ideally you then work to keep it that way, cause you want to, feel it.

You sound like you don't "feel" it, you feel "used?"

CW

[curiousity]

I agree that there is no set requirements so to speak with sex. He should respect your wishes if u say no not start an arguement. its true that in the beginning of a relationship sex seems to be more often but communication and changing minor things have been the key in my experience to a higher frequency of sex. u can try these but if you still dont want to dont be pressured into believing its cumpolsary

[anonymouswhitefemale]

National average is I believe twice a week - but that is just an indication of how unhappy everyone is.

If you see each other every day, then I'd say every day, and that each time doesn't end with just one orgasm. But hey, that's just my opinion.

If he doesn't get as much sex as he wants, expect him to be climbing the walls.

[SinisterUrge]

I think my count for this week is five.

[cmoneileena1]

I agree with anonymouswhitefemale... twice a week is the national average but that doesn't mean that is what you SHOULD be doing. Sex is not about should or shouldn't in that manner it is about what you are comfortable with.

Remember... no matter what he wants, no means no and if you are not in the mood don't let him force you or coerce you. It is YOUR body and you decide when you will share it. How often are you comfortable with? If it is less than he wants then maybe you should aim for something in the middle? If this is not good enough for him maybe you both need to move on...

[Heatwave]

I wish I had someone who could tire me out! Don't worry flatrogirl I'm sure he'll slow down soon, you could always go on a long holiday (without him) but guess that'd only make him a raging chain sh***er when you get back. Instead of saying you don't feel like it you could pretend you want it as much but come off as more controlled, and able to hold off for longer. Make it a game... maybe he'll join in and tease you too, making you gag for it instead of run away - if you have the energy! xx

[KSTXBOI]

Wow - I can't imagine a man starting an argument with me if I don't feel like "putting out" Frankly, that would turn me off more than anything. It doesn't seem like he is having sex emotioanlly, its seems physically only from what you have said.

[WildChild]

Kay, the two of you have to figure out what works for you. If you are fairly new to sex you may have gotten up to your full speed yet. He needs to understand that you will be more interested if he is more caring. A book you might consider, Lube Job.

[Tabatha S.]

Normal?

I don't know what the national average is... someone said 2 per week?
I could easily do 2 a day! My husband doesn't seem to want to initiate sex. I could easily go for 2 weeks without him mentioning it. I've always had a high sex drive and it seems like guys start out wanting it all the time, but they USUALLY taper off... USUALLY... there are the rare and precious exceptions.