[bubbles]

being new to sex is different, you have to figure it out yourself too. What you like? what you dont? now much? how little? but if someone is starting arguments over it, i agree that thats a turn off, and no one should make someone feel bad cause there not in the mood.

[lovepuns]

you have to be willing to compromise, but within reason. if your do it to much you might start looking at it as if it were a burden...and that isn't good for either of you.

[Greydog72]

My wife and I just talked about this this morning. She said that I wouldn't be satisfied if we did it everyday. I told, I think I would. And it's not the fact that I want it everyday, but the fact that I want her everyday.
I know that sounds selfish, but its true. I'm an older man that doesn't want pictures, movies, or other different stuff. I'm just trying to let her know that its her that I want and only having sex once or twice a week just doesn't feel like it's enough.
I also think its what you are willing to do for him and what he is willing to do for you. Needs and Gives I've notice are a big issue.

Good Luck

[silvertae]

I'd say my boyfriend and I have sex an average of 2-5 times a week. We've never really talked about what our ideal is, but he doesn't seem unsatisfied with this amount so I guess it works for us. If someone is unsatisfied then you need to have a chat about it, though, and come to a compromise that works for you both.

[ponysteel]

My wife and I have sex about 3 times a week during normal times, but there are no set rules - we do it when we feel like it! (we prefer mornings) During holidays, when there are no distractions, we have sex every day at least once and often twice and we don't mind where we do it (deserted beach, in car or against parked car!). I am 64 and my wife is 58 and we enjoy each other as much and almost as often as we did when we first met (after the initial "let's do it all night, every night" phase had settled down) - there's nothing to equal sex

[1life2live]

I average around 10x-12x a week. No kidding. We're so into each other.

[Guest]

I hate the word normal, when used in this kind of sentence or question....

I mean what is normal for me is not normal for the next person...In a relationship I think the couple sets their normal based on their needs and desires...It is tough in the beginning because the two are different and see things differently but with a little bit of communication and compromise on each others part you could find your normal!

[Heatwave]

I think my count for this week is five.

I take it your weeks start on a monday, not a sunday... (it's normally one or the other), it's just you posted on a sunday...

[CeeElleCee]

Haha, im slightly spiteful and rebellious, so ignore my advice if you are not, but i would never let any man argue his way into my pants. If i dont want to, im not going to do it. its YOUR body. thats YOUR decision. theres no limit to how many times a week to have sex, if u wanna do it 3 times a week, do it up, if you wanna do it 3 times a day, do that. not because HE says thats the normal limit. And dont let him telly ou whats "normal" because every man, every woman, and every relationship, is going to be different. And if hes pushy, tell him theres a 4 letter word called RAPE. but thats my opinion.

[rcoreyus]

CEeElleCee: what you say is completely correct. But - he does have a right to leave the relationship if he isn't getting as much sex as he wants. (as does she if he is bothering her too much)